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Thanks for this thread. I am coming from some serious depression/anxiety/self-esteem issues. It is deeply ingrained in both my body and the way I was raised and grew up. Does anyone have any pointers for overcoming this? I'll also look at this NLP thing, thanks

I've been trying to do this for a while. Before, in my nice guy-and-proud-of-it days, I would get attached to a woman. The whole I'll die if I don't get her to be mine mindset. I have moved on a bit from that, but it is still there, lurking in my mind. This caused me to somehow associate...

Allright, I realize I fvckked up bad. In my defense I was only trying to take the lead on something I wanted to do. ****, after all this, I look back at what I did and it makes me almost physically sick. I hope it isn't as bad as it seems, like I would have absolutely no shot. I'm going to not...

Holy crap dude, I really hope it isn't this bad. ****. I have no problem no contacting her at all until I get there, ****, even until I get settled in there. I didn't think it was creepy, ****, I tried to not **** this up, I tried to ****ing take the lead. Thats what I was thinking when doing...

Thanks dude. It was good to hear that. I think that's what I'll do. It will be next fall, so no contact at all till then? Hope I haven't ruined this, ****, I tried to guard against doing this, I thought I was ready, but apparently not :cuss:

Lol thanks man. The sex thing was me being a total chump. And not having any condoms :crazy: I just dont know what to think. I've been attracted to her for a long time. I thought she felt the same way. She was upset when I was flirting with another girl after our make out episode, and she...

Heres the deal. I knew this girl back in h.s. We didn't date, but initially I think she was attracted to me, But she date dmy friend so nothing happened. Then a year later, they were broken up, we went on a school trip together, and started making out. She asked if I wanted to "do it" but I said...

Man thanks for the insight. You say a lot of stuff that rings true. My life has been crazy for the past year, you say going to sh*t, from a rough breakup and deep depression, to slowly shaking off my former beta, loser attitude, dropping out of school, etc. I find myself constantly thinking...

Guys I need some help. The situation I'm describing is distressing to me as someone who has finally woken up from beta-ness. Back in H.S. I was into this girl, there was always a bit of mutual attraction there, but not much, more like friendship a bit. Then senior year we both went on a trip and...

Why would you want a woman who does this **** in your life? That's the simple beauty of NC.

Thanks for the responses. Yeah, thats what I'm trying to achieve, getting rid of depression and knowing what I want to do with my life. At this point, getting d's and c's on my transcript is a bad thing. I'm just going to miss the social life (or potential for one, since I really don't have...

Not worth any more effort on your part. Dump her mentally, ignore her, NEXT. Again, she isn't worth it.

I am so sick of this college B.S. right now. Flunking out of my classes, burnout, depression, I ****ed up my social life, etc etc etc. I'm going to go back home and take a break for the rest of the academic year. I feel like this (working, relaxing, hanging w old friends, one of which is a good...

I've gotten conflicting messages on this. I am at a very large, 40,000 and up population university. I've heard that you should not do cold approaches on campus because one screw up will mark you as that weird guy. Well, there are a ****-load of women here, and besides, I see a good amount of...

Damn it. Thought I was leading her with that. Lol. In retrospect I should've f-closed when the gym was closed. Hell, I should've closed at the damn party. Maybe taken her out to the dock, and then instead of the date thing along the street, take her straight back to the dorm, and her room...

First real pickup of the year. I meet this girl at a party, we start making out in the corner, shes a bit drunk. She has to leave when her friends do. Numbers are exchanged. Later, I invite her to go play raquetball. We don't get to usethe gym because the r'ball club is using it. We decide to...