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Ooh, I love this question! So many things to comment on: 1. You said in the OP that she complained about a previous guy who would text and call all the time. I would have brought that up when she was complaining - "Uhhh, weren't you the one who said the last guy you dated was on the phone with...

Now THIS was quite an interesting question I read on another forum: a 27-year old man has a 25-year old female friend of 7 years that he wants to introduce to his brand new girlfriend... and the friend isn't interested in doing so. He wanted to know: (a) why his friend wouldn't want to meet...

ALL OF THIS. Most men don't know that the first day a woman is online is the best day to message her before the onslaught comes. Make the match, send a few back and forth just so she knows you're not a weirdo, then ask for the date. Boom. I've literally done it within 1 to 2 messages before -...

He gets the "read his book 10 to 15 times" mantra from the late Doc Love, who used to tell men to read his "System" book 10 to 15 times to have it fully embedded in their brains. Eh, he's not wrong. As for the response: in my past there have been several times where I was hooking up with a...

It's a scenario that I've seen happen time and time again: man meets woman, man and woman exchange messages, man asks woman on date, woman says "yes" to date, man continues to text woman non-stop, woman starts to give shorter answers to man and/or waits longer to message man back... and now, man...

I'd say about 85% of what you're doing is pretty solid and on-point. A few critiques: 1. Agreeing to exclusivity after only 3 dates?? Eh, no bueno - ideally this would be happening at the 2-3 month mark. Regardless of how into you she is, dating without a title in those first couple of months...

Getting a woman back to your place - either after a date or as a date suggestion - can seem daunting. But fear not! I've had plenty of experience doing this, and with the right moves it can actually be quite easy to do. In this video, I give you 5 ways that have worked for me in getting a woman...

I had an interesting experience on another forum the other day. This guy posted up a simple dating question about a woman he'd taken out on 5 dates. He was ready to make it official with her, and her response was that it was too soon. The guy wanted to know why that was, so I responded in a nice...

So, this is the part where you have to learn to ignore the things a woman is SAYING, and look at her actions. If her words are saying "you're younger and I don't deserve you," and her actions are that she's f'ing your brains out, THAT's what you look at. Women will often have a variety of...

My 2 cents: short version - you're worrying over nothing. Longer version: it's admirable that you're looking into the faaaaaar off future with this woman... but it's only been 2 months. SLOW DOWN. Until she starts coming to you and asking you the "so what are we?" question, all you have to do...

Thought this warranted making a video response (no advertising of any kind in the video per SoSuave rules):

Funny enough, I've been hearing men say the whole "nowadays if you wait 4-5 days you will be replaced by another guy" thing since I started dating at 15 (and I'm 39 now). Yet in my experience it's never been true for women who are highly interested in you. For me, I already know when I take a...

3 dates can equate to about 6 hours if each of those dates is 2 hours long. I tend to err on the side of making the first date 90 minutes, then the second date 2 to 3 hours. Usually by date 3 the woman has spent just enough time with you to feel comfortable, and may be cool with a hook-up...

Herein lies the problem: many men think women decide on men the way we decide on women. I.E.: If a man takes a woman out on a first date and has a good time, he's already made up in his mind that he likes her. Therefore, he assumes if she has a good time, she must also have made up her mind...

I have yet to experience this. However, if I did, I'd just say "well, thanks for letting me know - if it doesn't work out, hit me up, but I'm out for now." I'm not staying around to be a side piece, lol

"My question is this, why would we seek out relationships where both parties have to fight against their own natures? For me, that is succumbing to the flawed, backwards, modern world." Here's the thing: it's not BAD to have this feeling of wanting to protect a woman. However, you can't go out...

"Emotionally unavailable" works in the beginning because men who are flooding them with emotions appear beta and weak. There is a balance to showing you can be available emotionally... but when most women say they want that, they usually mean they want a man who won't freak out when she shows...

My take: women who start off low-to-average in the looks department tend to do more stuff in the bedroom and be more caring and considerate. Women who are above-average in looks become average looking as they get older, at which point many of their ridiculous standards go away and they also...

I disagree in the sense that I saw many people I know get married in their 20s that were divorced by their 30s. Those people got second and third marriages coming up, so there's still a change a wedding crasher could run into a divorcee who's ready to be wild and uninhibited, lol

I haven't really had many issues with women and needing to have a large social circle for her to be attracted to me. If she has a large social circle, she'll usually try to get me involved in hanging with her friends. As for me, my social circle is small but consistent. And even then, the...