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Well when I say I needed to get close I'm talking from a chemistry/magnetic attraction point of view. As for my ex, you are right.. not over her.

I'm back on day 3 of NC. I ended up sleeping with my ex last Friday. Its hard when she calls/texts every day to ignore, ignore, ignore. I'm pretty much over her at this point though so the 30/60/90 days of NC is just a formality at this point. She broke up with me over two months ago so a...

You are already on day 18 man and doing pretty well. The pain is just your body flushing out the toxins. Embrace it but don't overindulge in thoughts. Remember how you felt when you were in the gym?

@Alex That's good that you are getting some good feelings back but don't get too high because this chit comes in waves... one minute you feel great and then all the sudden you feel like crap again. When you feel like chit again, and it will happen, try to remember times like when you were in...

Who cares. Let her think "she won". Your happiness shouldn't be based on some power chit with her. Flip a coin and then don't give it another thought.

Tell her your life is better without her in it. Who cares how it comes across.

My situation was a bit different because my ex is borderline. I didn't know any of this chit at the time. She split me to black and I was left for dead. I walked each time but she is also a narcissist and of course their biggest fear is abandonment so even though she dropped me she...

DAY 5 I told my last week that as long as she was with her boyfriend not to contact me. The next day she called me and told me that she broke up with her boyfriend and invited me over for supper. We ended up hooking up. Then the next day I found out that she went out with her boyfriend again...

Day 2 of NC. I set boundaries the last time I talked with my ex. She has been cheating on her new boyfriend with me but I put an end to it. I tried to detach emotionally and just use her for sex but I'm not strong enough right now and catch feels each time we hook up. I set a bunch of goals...

What would you have me do? I read your book. I found a new NON OLD female. I joined a bunch of meet up groups. Unfortunately I still love my ex. I wish I had the will to stop loving someone in a day but I don't possess that power. All I can do is work on myself and meet new women.

I failed at NC again. Going to start again tomorrow. My new goal is 10 days. I'm taking a new girl out tonight - the first girl that I met in person in a long time. I met her at a meditation class. She lives an hour out of town so there is 90% chance she will be staying the night.

Day 1. I've been fuking my ex a couple times a week even though she has a bf but I ended everything today. I felt her poison in me when I was sleeping with other plates... like I would be pounding an HB9 and all I wanted to do was snuggle with my ex. I dropped all my other plates as well. It...

You need to crawl before you can walk... walk before you can run.. ect I think OLD is a good tool for someone that is still in the crawl stage of socializing with women. It can get you a few dates with women that have some interest in you and you can get used to hanging out with them. Once you...

I do want her back. She got a hold of me yesterday and we ended up going out and fked like 5 times. But today she is back with her beta provider boyfriend and I'm posting another failure in the NC thread.

I need it for my sanity. This is the first girl to end things with me in 15 years. I was addicted to the competition of winning her back. Its over. I'm also switching gyms so I don't run into her.

I just ended it.

Hooked up with another plate new last night. 4 plates spinning now. My new plates aren't helping me get over my ex though :( I've been a failure when it has come to NC. I think the fact that we have been off and on like 7 times in 2 years makes it hard for me to believe its over. Especially...

Technically my ex broke up with me like 3 weeks ago but she gave me a BJ yesterday. I had her blocked but seen her at the gym and one thing lead to another. Model girl that wants to be exclusive I met online like 2 years ago. She was on Tinder for a like 3 days. I got her number but didn't call...

You must've gave off a real messed up vibe for a women to rather drive home drunk then stay and chat when she was already talking about eating out/ect. When she asked about the eating out you should've just told her that would be hard to do with your pants still on. At that point you could've...

I went to my new plates house and she was already giving me the exclusive talk. I don't know what to say in these situations. She asked me if I was dating anyone else and that she only dates one person at a time. Its only been like 2-3 weeks. I know she asked me that because she likes me but...