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  1. BeTheChange

    She broke up with me over text need help.

    No it isn't. Law 36: Disdain things you cannot have, Ignoring them is the best revenge You choose to let things bother you. You can just as easily choose, not to notice the irritating offender, to consider the matter trivial and unworthy of your interest. This is the powerful move. What you...
  2. BeTheChange

    Anyone noticed a decline of Thirst? in SM comments section

    In my 30s and yes theres been a marked drop in my reflexes and response time since teens. Its inevitable. But you can make up for it with your tactical awareness. Besides it's about having fun and trying to max your own performance, while accepting that you're unlikely to beat some 16 year old...
  3. BeTheChange

    Anyone noticed a decline of Thirst? in SM comments section

    End game state. When you're truly content to be alone or without women. It gives you a tremendous amount of power, but like you said once you're at that level playing the "game" just seems petty. This is where I'm at now. Weekday evenings I'm either in the gym or pursuing my social hobbies and...
  4. BeTheChange

    Success Journal - The journey to actualising one's potential

    Thanks bro. Sometimes it does feel like I haven't achieved anything at all, but I remind myself to be grateful. Ultimately life is good and progress is being made. My 2019 end of year net worth target was c. $360k. My actual net worth is c. $405k. It took me 5 years to go from zero to that...
  5. BeTheChange

    Success Journal - The journey to actualising one's potential

    Four investment properties under my belt now and a fifth on the way. Net worth sits at $400k. Not enough time for a more comprehensive income but intend to write something up later this month as an end of year review.
  6. BeTheChange

    article: Are Men Really Having A 'Friendship Crisis'? It’s lonely being a dude, but it doesn't have to be.

    100% this. I recently started gaming again, a hobby I'd set aside for 10 years because of an addiction I had to it in my late teens and at college. Pre red pill, going to the gym, sorting finances and winning in life I was games as an easy way to seek out external achievements but as a...
  7. BeTheChange

    Books on Socializing

    Please could you elaborate on this point.
  8. BeTheChange

    Tony Montana was right

    I don't place those sort of limiters on myself. But each to their own. Not everyone can be a 10 in looks. Doesn't stop people from hitting the gym or dressing better, nor should it. And my point still stands. Money = Freedom. FU money (FIRE) is achievable for most with discipline and...
  9. BeTheChange

    Tony Montana was right

    That's all part of the game. The 2019 "Money doesn't matter" crew are as bad as the 2000s "Looks don't matter" PUA clowns. Money might not buy you happiness but it can buy you freedom and that is power. One of the reasons why I put Money at the top of the LMS triad is because it has major...
  10. BeTheChange

    Tony Montana was right

    You're just being pedantic now, presumably because you lost the argument/misrepresented my position and you're trying to save face. If I said women on average prefer men taller than them would you come back to with the same nonsensical response about middle class white women reading Cosmo?
  11. BeTheChange

    Tony Montana was right

    Nope. We're just talking in terms of averages, which is what people do when discussing an entire population... As in the average women cares more about money than looks. Doesn't mean every woman cares more about money than looks, etc. Comprende...
  12. BeTheChange

    Tony Montana was right

    If you think money has no value you've not seen enough of the world. Lawyers don't actually make that much money. Or maybe I need to distinguish money from MONEY - top 10%. How many hedge fund managers do you actually know personally? How many sosuavers who say money is useless actually have...
  13. BeTheChange

    Tony Montana was right

    I dont think feminism has had any impact whatsoever on women bring attracted to men with money and power. The only things that changed is the goalposts have moved with regards to the sort of money needed to acquire that FUN lifestyle because now women can make their own money. When haters...
  14. BeTheChange

    Tony Montana was right

    I agree. It's a more or less universal truth. Throughout civilisation men have been acquiring money and power and with it came women. But apparently in the last 10 years, 10,000 years of civilisation have been rendered irrelevant and only chads get hot women now. :rolleyes:
  15. BeTheChange

    Tony Montana was right

    Bullsh*t. Of course it's easy to stay black pill since it justifies a lack of success. Like I said brother if you aren't seeing average looking guys do well with women then you need to see more of the world or get better friends.
  16. BeTheChange

    Tony Montana was right

    In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women. Few caveats to start with: Yes, looks are undeniably important for a lot of young women (18-21), particularly those who haven't graduated and...
  17. BeTheChange

    Books on Socializing

    Would you say it's the only book you need for cold approaches as well?
  18. BeTheChange

    Early 30s with solid career - Going back to school - Worth it?

    A lot of varied responses and valid points worth addressing. College is expensive. Yes the actual cost in tuition fees and opportunity cost in lost earnings would be a massive hit if I were doing a full time masters programme and based in the US. But here in the UK the cost of higher education...
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    Early 30s with solid career - Going back to school - Worth it?

    Thanks bro. I've spent most of the day researching and decided it's worth it. Worse case scenario I graduate with a second degree and got to learn a ton of interesting content I'm passionate about along the way. And I've found a course, which caters to working professionals and does evening...
  20. BeTheChange

    Early 30s with solid career - Going back to school - Worth it?

    Currently working in commercial finance, making good money ($100k+) I can tolerate what I do, but I don't really have a passion for it. I've always had an interest in Maths, Physics, technology, etc but my old man wanted me to go into "business" and so pushed me down the path of...
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