I never said that. I said someone who leaves his shopping cart in the parking spot is not more inconsiderate than someone who agrees to meet and then disappears.
agrees to meet: wasted 2 hours of your time driving, plus your gas
parking lot: get out of your car and move the damn cart. how hard...
I disagree. that's like saying a contract is invalid because the other party is a complete stranger. in the case of a shopping cart there is no agreement between the parties, I didn't agree that I would take my shopping cart and then refuse to do it.
too gimmicky
people who believe your phone affects anything also believe what you say affects anything...or the length of your text message affects anything "oh her text was 32 characters mine was 60 characters, too long, that's why she stopped responding"
I am so pissed. recently I have encountered one inconsiderate person after another. I don't know why people are so rude and inconsiderate. and this is not about confirmation bias and me noticing things that confirm my beliefs and ignoring things that don't confirm my beliefs. there is seriously...
in the scenario that you describe, the seasoned pua was just more confident and kept trying after getting rejected. by game i mean "a set of techniques to get a girl to like you" like "display high value" "neg" all that garbage doesn't exist. I believe it's just about being at the right place at...
for me it's 2 things
one of them you mentioned in point #4, not happy with yourself, being insecure
the other one is something you didn't mention. I just don't want it. I don't like most women, I have no respect for them as humans. like what's her biggest life struggle? this one time she got...
your post reminded me of this milf that i went out with. while cheering her drink against my drink, she said "here is to our first drink" I was thinking jesus she is already thinking "us"?
I am not a hater. lexus is a reliable brand and of course a guy should buy a car because he likes it not because girls like it. however, guys here talk about lexus as if it's a ferrari. these days even a bmw 3 series won't impress anybody. needs to be a 4 series or higher. girls are not stupid...
you say this is a frequent issue so I don't think it's a "she is just crazy" or "she is just not attracted" issue
it's definitely not that you are not joking around
are you nervous when you talk to her? are you concerned that she won't accept you?
I liked my beard when it was fully black. if a girl didn't like it, oh well, she can go date some feminine guy who doesn't grow facial hair.
but now my beard has started to grow white. my chin area has a lot of white and my sides are also starting to show some white.
I am feeling insecure about...
we are on the same page. you said it's important to be a genuine person. that's why I said I don't want to fake it and I want to actually be the guy that's not trying to be liked or accepted.
neither trolling nor joking work for me. I think it comes off as "this guy is trying to be liked". girls like me when I am serious.
besides, my question is on how to change my psychology, your solution changes my behavior.
when I talk to a girl, how can I give the impression that I am not trying to be liked or accepted?
my answer: by actually not trying to be liked or accepted (I dont believe in fake it philosophy)
so the question is, how can stop trying to be liked or accepted? how can I become a guy who is not...
it's not dead weight. your phone doesn't weigh more if you have more contacts in it.
you are right, don't keep the number "just in case one day she is interested" if she is not interested today she won't be interested tomorrow.
but so far nobody has come up with a valid reason to delete...
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