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I agree. Most of them are a 7 at best.

I don't know, man. You have to brainwash yourself, I guess... Some guys seem to have no problem with it, like guru1000. Then again, he is or has become quite the narcissist. I may remember incorrectly but I believe he once said he set up dates with two women on the same evening, in the same...

The only way I see it working is by extinguishing your hopes and expectations. If you don't have that hope and expectation for women to provide you with something more than sex, you can't get disappointed with them either. I just don't think I'm able to do that. Not right now anyway... It's not...

I've dated plenty of girls over the years and I sometimes look them up on social media. So many of them are now settling down, getting married, living together, having kids and all that. It's so funny to see that the great majority of them have the exact same type of guy that they're settling...

To make matters worse, somehow the fashion designers found it neccesary to give all pants a lower waist. So when you bend over a bit, your ass crack will become visible... Fvcking idiots!! This started some 20 years ago and I've been waiting for it to change since that time... But it seems I'll...

Traditional masculinity is sort of under attack in today's society but when I speak to men around me, I notice most of them won't accept that. Deep down, most men feel the same way about the issue. When push comes to shove, we won't let society dictate the way we are, is what I think...

Meh... Others' perception of you is based on several things, KarmaSutra. Clothing, charisma, body composure, the way you carry yourself, your voice etc. To think that one of all those aspects, in this case, someone's clothing, will solely determine others' perception of you is short-sighted. I...

Behavior/attitude should be separated from physical appearance. I fully agree that nowadays fashion norms for men are girly. It's just terrible and makes me cringe... However, it's just the norm, it's sheep behavior. All guys dress like this because "everyone else does" and they want to fit...

I still don't know what to make of it. She responded very fast and asked me a question (which invites for further conversation), so it's kinda positive. But still, this doesn't clearly tell me if it's case A, B, C or D. Is she just responding coz she likes the attention (and I showed that I am...

So here's another situation that pops up now and then... I already know guru1000 is gonna scold me for bringing it up haha, telling me I'm still asking n00b questions and not acting from an abundance mentality etc. I've already adressed the issue before but can't find the thread so here we go...

You have to force her to show whether she's interested or not. You do that by being sexual towards her. For example, ask her if she's working out. If she says yes, you let your eyes slowly glance over her body parts and say "hmm yeah, I can tell..." with a smirk on your face. That type of...

Update: No contact after I deleted her number and pretty much forgot about her. But I incidentally ran into her again this weekend (I suspected she might be there, though). We exchanged glances shortly but apart from that, I ignored her. Eventually she came up to me and started being all flirty...

It's a rule which applies to women in general, there may be exceptions. But how much nice guy behavior makes her lose attraction, can be totally different for different women. I guess to the degree that his SMV is higher than hers, he can be more of a nice guy without her losing attraction.

Just from reading your post, I get a sense that you are a nice guy. You have an inclination to care for other people, to do what's right.... You are a kind person... Which is ultimately unattractive to women. Just a theory...judge for yourself if there is any thruth to it.

Exactly. It was not my intention to hurt her feelings, I was just busting her balls. But the remark touched a nerve with her, and that's okay. Then it's up to me to explain that I didn't mean to hurt her feelings and try to make her feel better. Which I did. Apparantly, two days later she...

Anyway, I feel good! See, I felt bad when she didn't want to set up a second date and told me that she wasn't ready to start something new with a guy. I felt like I wasn't good enough for her. I was secretly hoping that she was a good girl who could offer me something more than just sex, some...

Fvck you.... You're woman aren't you? Of course you'll have this viewpoint where a guy shouldn't insult a woman (whether it's intentionally or unintentionally).

Hahaha! Like I said, it wasn't even intentionally. We were busting balls all the time, so it didn't seem that harmful when I said it, but perhaps it was to her. It can happen.... I don't feel I lost her in a sense that she was not a good candidate for something serious (which is really what I'm...

Yeah like I said, we were busting each other's balls all the time, so I was a bit surprised that she suddenly reacted so strongly. I see how some members are drawing the simple conclusion that I fvcked up coz I insulted her and it's normal for her to "dislike" me because of it. But come on, she...

Update. After she told me that I understood her correctly about the situation, I told her: "It's not handy to discuss this through text. We could talk on the phone tonight, I'll explain some things to you and then you make up your mind, okay? Come on, it's Valentine's day :D" She responded...