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    Books on Rome

    Can anyone recommend any good books on the history of Rome? The history of Rome as a republic and then as an empire, the great military campaigns, the political battles, the rise and fall of Rome, the stories of the emperors and other major characters? I always find myself interested in...
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    When your mind pulls you in two different directions...

    It's Friday, and I'm of a split mind. One half of me wants to go out to some bar/club, have a few drinks, chase some tail. The other half knows that it's a hopeless endevaor...even if I get laid, she won't "measure up" for anything more than a f**k buddy...it wants me to just sit here and...
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    Selfish, shy, or otherwise...

    ...I've run across a couple of girls lately who don't seem to "reciprocate". I usually enjoy eating a girl's p***y...I'm good at it, and I want to make sure they get off. Back in the day, most girls would reciprocate and either f**k or suck me off. Nowadays, I'm running across a lot of...
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    Where do you guys FIND women these days?

    Where does a "mature man" find new women? When you're young, you see them all the time at school, college, and even at work (since they're jobs you won't be keeping long-term, it's usually not a big deal) Where do you guys look once you get up into your 30s and such? I have a lot of...
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    Stop putting yourselves in bad situations...

    ...and then expecting SoSuave to bail you out. :kick: You wouldn't jump out of the plane, then yell to the instructor in free-fall, "Oh sh** I forgot to strap on my parachute! What can I do to salvage this situation??" SoSuave can't work miracles. Don't bareback any girl you wouldn't trust...
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    How do you feel about bars/clubs at a "mature" age?

    I ask this because as I type this, I am sobering up from a bar-hop. God damn bartenders for spiking my drinks...consequence of ttipping too well. :p I honestly don't connect with this environment. I wonder if it's just a result of being away from it for so long. I used to be so comforrtable...
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    Dodging dysfunctional people seems like the core of healthy dating...

    Wait_out said this in another thread and it got me thinking..."dysfunction" seems to be everywhere in modern society. And it's not just women...hell, I consider MYSELF dysfunctional in some ways. I'mm willing to bet a lot of us are. (Otherwise, would we be here?) Why is this so prevalent in...
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    What to do in Vegas

    I always come here to ask this because I figure some guys on here have to be making the rounds...work sent me to Vegas from today till Friday. What are some good nightlife places I can go to Mon-Thurs night to chill, have a few drinks, maybe take my chances with the ladies? ;) Last time I was...
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    Ready to hang the game up.

    I think I'm just done with it. Done with women, with romance, with sex, with all of it. I got bored tonight, so I called up a girl I've f'd once before. She's like a 6...cute, but not something I'd want my friends to see me with. We went out for a few drinks, ended up back at her place, f*cked...
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    Do not fall for girls inflating your ego!

    Lesson to all "Don Juans"...if a girl wants to f**k you all the time, goes on and on about how perfect you are, how awesome the sex is, how in-love she is with you, etc, etc after the first couple months of dating, chances are it's an act. She's trying to MANIPULATE you...and she's...
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    Not 5 years ago...this stuff used to be fun...

    I can't help but wonder what happened to me. How did I become such a woman-hating misogynist? How am I supposed to have a CHANCE with "PU" if every time I see an attractive woman, I'm filled with as much disgust and revulsion as I am attraction? That air-headed, self-centered, "look at how...
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    Dilbert "gets it".

    http://www.dilbert.com/2010-06-22/ :p
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    Strange how on Plenty-of-Fish, you can block...

    ...people trying to send you messages about sexual encounters, but you can't block people who already have kids, you can't block people of certain body types, etc... What an awful website. :p
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    Darkened State of Mind

    I don't know why I'm posting this here...this forum seems to be rampant with cynicism and vitriol toward the "game" and toward life in general...I wonder if some of the old "veterans" are still out there lurking, I guess. Every day I continue to live, I feel more and more alone in this world...
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    A Mature Man is NOT Afraid of Monogamy - He Seeks It on his Own Terms

    This is in response to all of you people who are saying stuff like, "This girl I'm seeing, she really likes me and wants to be with me exclusive, but I don't know if I should..." Grab your balls and make a damned decision. Either do it or don't. Don't sit there and hesitate like John Kerry's...
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    Here's a class-act for you...

    Let me see what you guys think. I've already started coming to my own conclusions. This girl I had a SERIOUS crush on 5 years or so ago just IM'd me out of the blue a couple nights ago. I mean bad AFC one-itis, complete with the desperate spill-your-guts maneuver that effectively ended all...
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    Pay attention to what's going on around you...

    You guys who are so hung up about rushing into relationships, marriages, moving in with chicks, and ESPECIALLY those of you in a rush to breed...wake up and start paying attention. Look what happens to other men who don't think these things through...
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    Where are you guys picking up women online?

    Where are you guys pulling women online now? I used to use MySpace a LOT back in its early days. It was great because it wasn't a "dating site". Dating sites are filled with hard-luck cases and girls looking for "Mr. Right". But being a "social networking" site, MySpace, before word got out...
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    Why this nonsense all over these forums about "forcing" relationships to last??

    A relationship either works or it doesn't. It is NOT an entity unto itself, it's a sum of the parts. The parts being YOU and the GIRL. There's a reason all the guys who are "successful with women" created these "communities" based on the notion of seduction and romance, rather than...
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    MIND DUMP - The Evolution of the Male-Female Dynamic

    This post from Aenigma http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155547 got me thinking. In a weird way, a lot of ideas I've had floating in my head for anywhere from a few days to a few years seemed to come together in a coherent picture. Take it for what it's worth to you. :)...
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