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    At what ages does living at home becoming AFC?

    In this economy, living at home is becoming more and more common. It's even a trend amongst our generation. I would say at 24 is starts to look bad, and every year it gets exponentially worse.
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    When chicks joke about being bf/gf, is it an IOI?

    It depends on the context. But I think most of the time it isn't an IOI. That's just from my own personal experience. I always thought that they would only joke about it if they truly didn't care about a relationship.
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    Is referring to you by name an IOI?

    Before you write this off as silly, just know that I've heard this for years now and from several sources. Anyway, here's my question... would statements like: "Hey Tom" "Thanks Tom" "How are you, Tom?" "Nice meeting you, Tom..." be indicators of interest as opposed to: "Hey"...
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    I'm at the end of my rope... screwed up bad last night

    You're completely right. It's a bummer dude. All I had to do was offer to walk her home (it was late), or ask her if she wanted to chill a little longer at her place. It was a freakin' lay-up. Thanks everyone for the input. I just have to get over my fear of escalating sexually.
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    I'm at the end of my rope... screwed up bad last night

    Does anyone have any advice to help me close better? Kino, got the number, isolation, did all that. Couldn't seal the deal. Any tips?
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    How to act at a party

    He's definitely right, but you can't be too crazy either. Be funny, happy, outgoing, friendly... but don't be that idiot running around the party who is in everybody's face. He's trying to be the life of the party too. Be down to earth, interesting and fun. Control yourself though.
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    I'm at the end of my rope... screwed up bad last night

    I think you're right. We smoked way too much. It made me kinda apathetic and timid.
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    You have a RESET switch. Use it.

    +1. Now I just need to see if I can "reset" after I chickened out of a close last night
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    I'm at the end of my rope... screwed up bad last night

    Met a girl last night. Pretty cute and with beer goggles on, a definite keeper. We were talking the whole night. She was giving of tons off IOIs with her body language. I got her number, did lots of kino. She asked if I was dating anyone. In other words, this was a "go". I actually got to the...
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    What motivates you?

    http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=151592
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    finally gonna lose the v card

    My advice? Don't be so sure you're even gonna get laid. Ever heard of LMR? It happens all the time. Plus, girls love spontaneous sex, promising yourself it's gonna happen could hurt your chances. Unless the sex will be with a prostitute. In that case, wear a rubber.
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    Whenever I need confidence, I think of this...

    Never forget the importance of saying something vs. doing something Example: The girl flakes on a special date. You're upset. Saying something: Telling her "Don't worry about me, I'll be fine. That's the last time you'll hear from me for a while." vs. Doing something: Contacting her again IF...
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    can you wait too long to reply back to a 'thank you for a great date text'?

    Waiting too long is stupid. It kills all momentum. And the waiting game is old anyway. Women know about it now. All their old flings used to wait to respond to them too. You're not going to impress them by saying "you're welcome" four days after she was considerate enough to thank you for a fun...
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    Whenever I need confidence, I think of this...

    Here's another tip... love your name. Think about your name, what it represents, how you got it and all the cool things about it. My name is Tom and I think it's a cool, down to earth, simple name. Nothing crazy or fancy, but not as common as some other names (though still popular). It's...
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    She tries to hold eye contact, but can't... IOI?

    Maybe. Maybe not. It's been proven that eye contact represents confidence. I'm not saying she isn't looking me in the eyes. It's actually like she's attempting to but has a hard time doing it. I have known a few girls in my day who would look me in the eyes and would always hold it for as...
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    She tries to hold eye contact, but can't... IOI?

    Really? I think she does do that actually. I'll look for it tomorrow. Thanks for the tip my friend, I had never heard that one before :up:
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    She hasn't returned my call, what should I do?

    Just chill. Stop calling. I never call twice. And I don't leave messages. That being said, women are weird. They are moody. She might be testing you. She might have lost interest. She might be more interested. If women were easier to understand this forum wouldn't exist! There is a really...
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    She tries to hold eye contact, but can't... IOI?

    Anybody? I try to help out and give advice in this community as much as I can. I'd appreciate any feedback!
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    When do you usually call numbers?

    +1 Me and you are usually on the same page Aragon :up:
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