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  1. Bethatsocialguy

    *advice* ----> If a girl has a lot of guy friends, it is a red flag

    It just adds unnecessary drama to your life
  2. Bethatsocialguy

    *advice* ----> If a girl has a lot of guy friends, it is a red flag

    As guys, we know how much of snakes we can be...especially if the guy isnt one of your friends. They dont give a fudge about you and you dont give a fudge about them.
  3. Bethatsocialguy

    *advice* ----> If a girl has a lot of guy friends, it is a red flag

    Exactly. The guys are hanging around waiting for that moment.
  4. Bethatsocialguy

    *advice* ----> If a girl has a lot of guy friends, it is a red flag

    If you are seeing a girl and she has a lot of "guy friends", it is a red flag. Why? Because 1. she is used to lots of male attention which means if you become exclusive with her, her attraction has to be super high in order to squash the lack of male attention she is going to get. 2. it means...
  5. Bethatsocialguy

    The power that every man has is....

    The power that every man has (but not every man uses) is the power to walk away. If you get in the friendzone and you do not want to be in the friendzone, walk away. Why are you still there giving the girl attention? You are basically telling her that you are ok with the friendzone and that she...
  6. Bethatsocialguy

    Need advice? Put a question below (keep it short) and I will give you advice

    I am a dating/relationship coach and I give out free advice here! Write a question below and I will try to answer them all and give you what I believe to the problem/solution/or my opinion. Remember to keep it short because it makes things a bit easier.
  7. Bethatsocialguy

    4.5 million girls in my city. 800k girls from 18-24. i could get through all of them if i messaged 2191 girls per day for 365 days

    It could work but you would have to consider the quality of woman that would agree to it. Like you said, if your social media had really good pictures and you actually had a fun life too, why not run a program in the background. However, I would never completely rely on it. Like with online...
  8. Bethatsocialguy

    Do yall ever send the first text after the first date

    It really depends on how you leave the date. Normally, a good way to leave a first date is to say "Text me if you want to meet up again" or "Text me if you want to (*insert something you talked about during the date*)" This is a good option especially if you didnt take things further during the...
  9. Bethatsocialguy

    Help a mature brother decide

    The problem is, she is making all the decisions in her personal life as well as her work life and you are allowing it to happen. Deep down, she doesnt want to be making those decisions in her personal life but she is so used to it (aafter all years working) that she does it now and no guy has...
  10. Bethatsocialguy

    Is it me or do girls flake less now

    It is a great learning lesson for next time anyway. When you see the same red flags in the future, you know how to handle it or not to handle it at all and walk away
  11. Bethatsocialguy

    I wasted my youth and I'm struggling to let my regrets go. Any tips or advice?

    Forget about the past and focus on your future self. The problem is, you are feeling sorry for yourself about your past. Yes it sounds like it was rough but as you have learnt the hard way, only YOU are able to change it. I would start on selfdevelopment. Doing your hobbies, working out, meeting...
  12. Bethatsocialguy

    Hot chick has made over 100K selling jars of her farts...WTF?

    It´s funny because we don´t see feminists standing up for this inequality
  13. Bethatsocialguy

    Is it me or do girls flake less now

    Focus on not being at war with your ex and finding some other girls to talk to. You got to start spinning those plates otherwise you will lose your mind if all you think about is your ex. And girls are still flakey
  14. Bethatsocialguy

    What do you think about this chick?

    Hold your frame. The fact is, you said you dont take girls on dinner dates means you cannot offer that to her. What you should do now is either go on a date with another girl OR go out somewhere cool and post it on social media. You should be doing that anyway to show off your lifestyle but she...
  15. Bethatsocialguy

    Moved to a college town, but I'm 42

    I dont understand why people hate so much in the comments. I thought we were here to help each other and to get each other laid. Anyway, style is important regardless of age. The fact that you are 42 can work for and against you. You will face a variety of challenges for example, why go for you...
  16. Bethatsocialguy

    Do girls like to pretend to be chaste...

    A lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets. Think of a girl like a video game. You have to unlock the special perks. The way to do that is to be a man, be alpha. Show alpha traits which includes a number of things for example, focused, passionate, ambitious, healthy looking etc etc
  17. Bethatsocialguy

    What to do when she starts reaching out after the soft next.

    If I was you, I would pull away and meet other girls. Don´t tell her anything. If you really want to make things clear, invite her on a date. I mean, say to her about going to get a drink with her. During the drink, you have to flirt (have you been flirting with her already). When I say flirt, i...
  18. Bethatsocialguy

    Field report: girl on long distance relationship calls while I'm out for dinner with a plate

    I think this situation is much more simple than you think. 1. The fact you met another girl and went to dinner with her shows you still want to play the field a bit which is completely fine. In fact, I encourage my clients to do that if you are not in a serious relationship. As soon as this...
  19. Bethatsocialguy

    What to do with my friends after unplugging?

    I know what you mean. Men work well in tribes. That is why when you go out with you boys somewhere, there is a sense of power..a unit...because us men are stronger together than separated. Which is why society does everything it can to divide us which is a completely different topic lol
  20. Bethatsocialguy

    Field report: girl on long distance relationship calls while I'm out for dinner with a plate

    How old are you both? She basically gave you a **** test and checked to see if you were going to accept her bull**** and you ended up apologising for no reason. It made you look weak and in the wrong when you were not.
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