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  1. SH03C

    OLD - Agreed Upon Meetup, After Some Drag Time

    I’m thinking I should potentially apologize to this girl for the way I came across via text. I’d like to know whether it is something to consider. As a person I think it’s important to own up to your mistakes but of course I don’t want to come across as desperate or needy. That said, would...
  2. SH03C

    OLD - Agreed Upon Meetup, After Some Drag Time

    Yep, many mistakes and it’ll be good to learn from them all. Had I presented the proper 2nd date formula (Let’s meet xxx @ xxx during xxx) I would have not gotten insecure about her follow up question to the offer and she would have been presented with a yes/no question. I would have not gotten...
  3. SH03C

    OLD - Agreed Upon Meetup, After Some Drag Time

    Final Result. See image. Learned a great deal and have you guys to thank. Appreciate all the advice. Admittedly I got oneitis after being out the game for so long. Funny thing is I’m not some ugly pleeb. I just don’t do too well in social environments. Also make 120k/yr, though dont mention...
  4. SH03C

    OLD - Agreed Upon Meetup, After Some Drag Time

    I did actually think that at the time. Unfortunately I was too hyped up off preworkout and post exercise adrenaline and so I let it get the best of me…
  5. SH03C

    OLD - Agreed Upon Meetup, After Some Drag Time

    So I did apologize, in a sense. Probably a weak move. Should I expect to hear back again?
  6. SH03C

    OLD - Agreed Upon Meetup, After Some Drag Time

    Full convo attached.
  7. SH03C

    OLD - Agreed Upon Meetup, After Some Drag Time

    Update - I sensed a bit of hesitation upon asking for a 2nd date on Tuesday night. I made the decision to be direct and clear about my thoughts on that. Now I’m concerned this may backfire. I know some DJs would say I made the right move by asserting my standards, but I’m interested in hearing...
  8. SH03C

    OLD - Agreed Upon Meetup, After Some Drag Time

    Couldn’t have said it any better. Spoken like a master of the craft. Thank you!
  9. SH03C

    OLD - Agreed Upon Meetup, After Some Drag Time

    I do see this point too. For me it was just natural to do so as we’ve chatted everyday for the last two+ weeks and things had been progressing nicely. Furthermore, we had both agreed early on that we were looking for LTR. IMO I think allowing for any distance to develop would do more harm than...
  10. SH03C

    OLD - Agreed Upon Meetup, After Some Drag Time

    @Modern Man Advice Gotta say, I’ve seen a good deal of legitimate advice of yours, which has been wanting to know how you approach arranging a 2nd date. How many days after the first do you line up a 2nd? Whats your preferred date, do you approach it differently with a LTR prospect? Would be...
  11. SH03C

    OLD - Agreed Upon Meetup, After Some Drag Time

    Thanks, will take a look. Curious to know your method for arranging a second date. Care to share?
  12. SH03C

    OLD - Agreed Upon Meetup, After Some Drag Time

    Wasn’t able to find a free version of 3% man online. Do you have any links? Thanks.
  13. SH03C

    OLD - Agreed Upon Meetup, After Some Drag Time

    Appreciate your perspective. I’ve been reading through a lot of content and will make it around to 3% man later today/tomorrow. Recently @Bigpapa put me on girlschase.com, which has helped me learn a great deal about escalation and banter. All good stuff and willing to devote the time to refine...
  14. SH03C

    OLD - Agreed Upon Meetup, After Some Drag Time

    Do agree. My plan this week will be to lay low. Potentially reach out on Wednesday or Thursday to ask for a weekend meetup. Would this make sense to do?
  15. SH03C

    OLD - Agreed Upon Meetup, After Some Drag Time

    Final update: So it seems I was able to pull her back into frame (See Image). From here I will be touch and go approach this week and attempt to arrange a 2nd date. I may possibly ask her to go salsa dancing Saturday or potentially a concert. Given there was little kino on the meetup I’m...
  16. SH03C

    OLD - Agreed Upon Meetup, After Some Drag Time

    Great content. Thanks for sharing.
  17. SH03C

    OLD - Agreed Upon Meetup, After Some Drag Time

    Yeah do agree. FWIW - I was at a bar post date and talked with a fairly attractive female who said it was imperative that I send a post date text since I was the one that initiated it. Probably not the best resource, in hindsight.
  18. SH03C

    OLD - Agreed Upon Meetup, After Some Drag Time

    I do like that actually. Would it not come off as perhaps spiteful, Considering she did not reciprocate my text?
  19. SH03C

    OLD - Agreed Upon Meetup, After Some Drag Time

    And so how would I go about things from here. I’m thinking it’s probably best to not respond to her message.
  20. SH03C

    OLD - Agreed Upon Meetup, After Some Drag Time

    I framed our time yesterday as a “meetup” as this was our first time meeting from OLD. Not sure that matters much, but if there were a 2nd encounter I’d aim for a concert or something more lively than a drink and convo. All in all she was not what I expected. Almost too intelligent, has a...
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