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  1. Kitttydiet88

    Dealing with embarrassment of performance anxiety

    If a girl is not begging you to **** her, especially on the first lay, then she is simply not sufficiently aroused. It sounds like this woman was not aroused, which in turned killed your arousal. Hard to blame you for that. You need to work on your foreplay/oral. Simply popping some sildenafil...
  2. Kitttydiet88

    Is intelligence truly attractive?

    My theory is that, without physical attractiveness, your intelligence simply does not register in their sexual radar. You’re deeply entrenched in the friend zone from the outset. That is of course, until they hit the wall and their circumstances start matching your looks.
  3. Kitttydiet88

    Finasteride has reduced my sex drive, and this is a good thing in this current environment

    Look into dutasteride. Much more effective than finasteride when it comes to hair loss and will plummet your sex drive/aggression even more (if you’re into that).
  4. Kitttydiet88

    Is intelligence truly attractive?

    I’m guilty of telling women (of above average intelligence) that it’s their intelligence that attracted me to them, but in all honestly, it’s just a qualifier. How do I know this? Because, while I’ve slept with physically attractive women who were not very bright, I’ve never actually been with...
  5. Kitttydiet88

    Is intelligence truly attractive?

    I was enjoying some coffee this morning at my favorite coffee shop and a couple walked in and sat in the table in front of me. The woman was a short, but very pretty brunette, possibly latina, with a smoking body. I’d say an HB 9. The dude was white, skinny, around 6’2” and vaguely good...
  6. Kitttydiet88

    Is this normal?

    Quick update: cougar invited me out on date #2 yesterday. She booked a nice hotel room and took me out for dinner after lots of sex. She wants to meet again soon. I learned an important lesson here. When a woman has high IL and is more invested than you are, she won’t confuse you about her...
  7. Kitttydiet88

    How do you answer when a woman asks you how many women you have had sex with?

    Today? None if she keeps pushing, tell her you’re a virgin.
  8. Kitttydiet88

    Is this normal?

    Thanks for the solid advice. That’s pretty much what I’ve been doing for the last 10 years. Focused on my career, building wealth, self-improvement, gym, etc. You’re right about the importance of a social circle. I ended an LTR and moved to a rural area halfway across the US for a promotion. My...
  9. Kitttydiet88

    Is this normal?

    You nailed it. I want a 2nd date just to see if I’m capable of landing one. I’m not looking for anything long term. I just want to be in a position where I’m spinning multiple plates and all the ghosting/flaking BS won’t bother me anymore.
  10. Kitttydiet88

    Is this normal?

    Quick update: went on date #5 with cougar today. We had coffee, walked around a park, grabbed sushi then ****ed in nearby hotel. The sex was decent, but the overall experience felt unsatisfying. This woman was 11 years older than me, and although she took good care of her appearance, I’d rate...
  11. Kitttydiet88

    Is this normal?

    I have no qualms about saying no to a girl or disagreeing with her. I always err on the side of being dominant. The last girl that ghosted me actually told me I was very assertive.
  12. Kitttydiet88

    Is this normal?

    Thanks for the pointers bud. I’m here for advice. I have neither time nor interest in trolling anyone. I never claimed to be great. If I was great I wouldn’t be here asking for advice. I’m interested in banging women, and trying to figure out why I’m not getting results so far.
  13. Kitttydiet88

    Is this normal?

    Yeah, this stuff worked for me back in my early 20s. These girls are in their late 20s, early 30s. Maybe they’re seeing right through my **** and ejecting, but if that was the case, then why are they giving me so many IOIs during our meets? If they knew I was playing them, why don’t they show...
  14. Kitttydiet88

    Is this normal?

    I hear you man. That was my original approach for the first 3 dates. My routine is try and guess whether they’re a white wine or red wine person early on (always have both on hands), then invite them over to a nearby hotel (I live in a rural area, gotta travel to meet girls) to drink the wine...
  15. Kitttydiet88

    Is this normal?

    What drives me absolutely insane is their behavior during dates. Around 10 years ago when I used to pick up girls, it was relatively easy to determine a girl’s interest level, but not anymore it seems. These OLD girls demonstrate high IL during dates. Laughing at jokes, picking up dropped...
  16. Kitttydiet88

    Is this normal?

    Yeah this is pretty much my experience. I’m starting to think all the girls in there are delusional.
  17. Kitttydiet88

    Is this normal?

    Thanks for the tips bud. Honestly, I wish I wasn’t even getting dates. At least I would know it’s got nothing to with my game. Getting multiple dates, plenty of IOIs, and then getting ghosted is messing with my head and making me doubt how tight my game is lol.
  18. Kitttydiet88

    Is this normal?

    Thanks for the advice That’s a good observation. Maybe they believe a guy like me has better options and don’t want to get pumped and dumped. However, doesn’t that defeat the whole purpose of hypergamy and going out with the highest value guy you can get? Maybe these girls are the ones with...
  19. Kitttydiet88

    Is this normal?

    I recently came out of an LTR and decided to mess around with dating apps for the first time. So far, it’s been a total disaster. A little about me: I’m 32. I’m familiar with the core gaming concepts. I’m confident and assertive. Most girls describe me as handsome. I’m ripped. I have a high...
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