The Ultimate Guide to Success with Women

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    Your girl asks if It's okay to...

    You're forgetting about the effect of being in demand and having abundance causes. My gf knows I have women interested in me, some of them are "just friends". I completely flipped the script in this sense. Her being weary of the girls I know makes her see things from my perspective I discussed...
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    Help with new girlfriend situation

    Not a test IMO, just flat out grounds for dumping her. There's a reason women have to resort to online dating, and don't you guys forget it! If they had their **** together in teh real world they wouldn't be in that predicament in the first place. Granted some supplement things by having an...
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    Your girl asks if It's okay to...

    She's asking you to lay down the law and to define the boundaries of the relationship. Doing so is more powerful than being seen as "insecure". In the context of this threat that's just a label people use to shame your decision. Stand firm and she may piss and moan, but she'll respect you more...
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    What type of approach is this?

    You were treading on being too needy/clingy from being waaaaay too available, but now you're not and reversed the frame and she's chasing. This is why guys should spin multiple plates, it keeps your attention spread around an a good level. The person who is least invested holds the power, and...
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    Learning game is destroying my game?

    Stop reading and start doing. Most people don't need all this crap and just need to fix a couple problems here or there and nature will take its course. If you're constantly getting stuck on a specific then, and only then, should you start looking online or reading about the issue you've got...
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    The counseling profession and their mindgames.

    In the event his post does get nuked: "I read what Message Boy said. Although I know jophil's not with us anymore, I have to say, I support jophil's actions. Yes, he could have sat down with her and explained to her what she did wrong, why he's drawing out this war with her. But the fact is he...
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    Think this girl is BPD...

    It was a **** test mixed with a bit a projection. And there it is. That's where the projection is probably coming from. -------------------------------------------------------------------- Having read the rest, she's got shades of codependency and I think BPD or bi-polar may be on the...
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    Entitlement

    Reading it now, I can already tell where he messed up: Stop right there. Instead of being the one sitting there with your pud in your hand, you tell her to call you when she's on her way and you'll meet her at xyz. If shes doesn't contact you then you're not out anything. If you go with the...
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    Roissy

    Can you upload the archive somewhere?
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    If prostitution were legal in USA (everywhere), would wives have less "headaches"?

    Sexual currency is what it's all about. This is why sluts (and prostitutes) are bad for women: they upset the social order of things. This is a good read on the subject: http://dalrock.wordpress.com/2011/08/30/defining-sluthood/ I personally do not believe legal brothels would seriously...
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    I'm I off-base here?

    Wise words. I think that's a good way of putting it, that she's going out with him, even if she doesn't see it as a date, that you do, so to you she's breaking the exclusivity deal. :le sigh: 1. She did have romantic feelings for this guy as they've already dated. Stands to reason they can...
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    Entitlement

    How to avoid a flake: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=1817670&postcount=5 2 Strikes rule: http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=154043
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    Date idea?

    "When I asked her to meet me for dinner on campus" It worked out this time, but stop asking. Take charge and give her choices, but of things you've already decided on. For example, Hey, I'm free tonight. You up for "mini-golf, happy hour, or xyz?" Asking is tantamount to begging and begging is...
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    Girls are AFCs

    I agree that by our standards girl-game is largely AFCish. When girls hit on guys it usually takes the form of functional openers: asking for the time, directions, if they have a light, etc. Rarely do women actively run game the way we do. Granted they don't really need to for the most part.
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    Breaking Up Like a Man

    Like a m-f'n boss. Well played.
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    Living on a shoe string and banging lots of chicks!

    All this and more is possible with tight game. If a woman *wants* to bang you she will find a way!
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    Why men are not asking women out on dates like they used to?

    Wow, KABOOM! goes the nuclear bomb of truth. Men don't want to date other men with tits. They want to date women who are feminine, hot, and complimentary to them in terms of emotional and mental compatibility. Being a ball busting ***** with a man-jaw and extra 20-50+lbs on your frame isn't...
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    "American women are the devil"

    I already lived it and saw the world first hand. If you had actually read the article start to finish you'll see that there are still some decent women left here, so improving all those things you listed can still net you a decent woman. However, the laws in the west are stacked against you so...
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    "American women are the devil"

    Speak of the devil... http://www.inmalafide.com/blog/2011/08/16/american-girls-suck/
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    Tough situation guys...

    And people wonder why Men's Rights Activists exist. See also: www.reddit.com/r/mensrights
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