The Ultimate Guide to Success with Women

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    article: All The Single Ladies

    Author and women like her are reaping what they sow. It sucks for most guys, but for the few of us who are enjoying "soft harems" life couldn't be better. Hookup culture can be summarized by a Roissy quote: "women prefer five minutes of alpha to five years of beta".
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    Feeling like a lost cause - another perfect date turned sour

    Beta bait. You fell for it. She wanted sex and in a way was testing to see if you'd go for what you want. You showed her you're really just a beta in disguise and it probably turned her off. She may not articulate it this way, but that's probably what's she's feeling in her gut.
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    The apparent "gayness" of many coaches

    The type of man women find attractive depends on where the women are at in their cycle. When they're ovulating they tend to want classic alpha male characteristics you'd imagine. Other times of the month they are drawn to more effeminate traits like the ones you described. Considering that's the...
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    D1ck size plays a role in cold approaching

    They watched people's eyes in an experiement during Science of Sex Appeal. Women indeed looked at the guys junk. IIRC usually guys work from the face down and women work their way up from the feet. I suggest doing what zekko suggested and play around with faking it to see if they react any...
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    Female Friends

    lolwut? Female friends are excellent. A decent female friend as a wingwoman is 10x better than an excellent wingman, hands down. Girls will get you laid all the time if they are social and cool with you. Doubly so if they are "hawt girls".
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    Total AFC relapse.

    Step 1 for getting over this - realize it's all in your head. Literally, it's just brain chemicals. Step 2: occupy your thoughts with other stuff. Step 3: occupy your free time with other stuff. Video games, hanging out with friends, going to the gym, working extra hours, and stuff like that...
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    deception

    The hell? Reverse genders and **men** have GONE TO JAIL for this exact same thing. edit: case in point - http://www.daytondailynews.com/news/crime/man-with-hiv-indicted-for-having-sex-with-women-1161861.html
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    I quit bothering with US women years ago.

    Nobody should even think about getting married if they live in a western nation with the screwed up divorce laws we've got on the books. Just take a look at some of the risks and liabilities it poses: http://dontmarry.wordpress.com/ Divorce Theft, indentured servitude, and debtors prison are...
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    Quote from Kartrashian

    Exactly. What happened in urban areas with blacks is a precursor to what will happen to the US at large as the welfare state expands. I don't think it'll get that far though because the govt simply cannot afford it. They'll either scale back the military, raise taxes, or both. IMO a more likely...
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    I just had (yet another) epiphany

    Fitness hobbies like rock climbing are great. However, like you said, they can get pricey.
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    I just had (yet another) epiphany

    This is weak advice, not because there's no truth to it, but because it lacks any meaning to the individual. Where's the road-map to develop hobbies? Where's the recommendations on where to go to learn about them? How does one interact with women they'll meet at these mystery hobby events? In...
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    Quote from Kartrashian

    You're right, all that was kept under wraps, but it all still happened. By putting it on TV and indoctrinating the public, combined with "inclusiveness" and diversity bs and how we're not supposed to shame people anymore, it's made these social ills at least acceptable to the point people don't...
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    On the precipice of a breakup

    Reminds me of RT's buddy in this story: http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2011/11/10/good-girls-do/
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    What would you do in my situation?

    Quoting for posterity since OP will disappear due to not having his age in his profile.
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    Quote from Kartrashian

    Yeah, no. Kim Kardashian is a short little chubster. All she has going for her is money, DSLs, and great fashion & makeup skills (likely because of the money). Look at her fugly sisters for a more realistic gauge of her natural genetic stock. See also: http://i.imgur.com/Msrqz.png From...
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    Who are the guys f'ing the attention wh0res?

    Pretty much this in every way. What I've found helps is keeping them at arms length and denying them validation/attention. Drives them up the wall creating a chase frame with me as the prize. Then when I do go out with them (as friends of course) I milk them for all the preselection I can get...
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    Who are the guys f'ing the attention wh0res?

    This should answer that question: http://www.bristollair.com/2008/inner-game/nature-reality/secret-society/ Tl;Dr: players/naturals are the ones getting these sorts of women.
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    Roissy vs Heartiste

    I wrote a whole thread about this: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=189567 As for who actually writes the blog, it's several people. A couple of entries make reference to there having been other writers. Whether it gets handed down to new people over years, or if it's an amalgam...
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    Girlfriend Issues

    Nope, too beta. A one word reply such as "cool" or nothing at all is the way to go. It'll frak with her head how he could be so callous about it and will make her stew. That stewing over his lack of concern will build up as investment. Once her investment rises to a certain point, assuming she's...
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    Girlfriend Issues

    Fail. You don't give her the power like that, it's foolish at best. Instead you should show her the door and be willing to walk away. That can shock their system and instill dread of being cut loose which a lot of times can make them reinvest in the relationship and straighten up. Furthermore...
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