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  1. J

    I miss having a girlfriend sometimes

    Most are pre-wall (23-28). Just recently (last couple years) I’ve began to strive more financially. Finally got a decent promotion at my job a few months ago. I know there’s still room to grow in that department, but I’m liking the progress I’m making. You’re probably right about only getting...
  2. J

    I miss having a girlfriend sometimes

    I know, I know... The last “real” relationship I was even in was mid-2016. I’ve been dating and just having flings & plates since. I’m turning 31 next week. I know women’s nature and how most are just looking for the best SMV guys out there. Also how their hypergamy works. I’ve had it happen...
  3. J

    I went to store today to buy a couple shirts

    I would ask her out just for the practice. She’s obviously shown a little interest. And I prefer younger women too, but I wouldn’t be opposed to a 32 or 33 yr old if she didn’t have a lot of other red flags.
  4. J

    Teeth

    I know it’s silly on the outside looking in, but I don’t know. It’s still my biggest obstacle in my mind in doing better on dates. I’m happy with the rest of my life. Just not my teeth. I went in and got them checked out at a periodonist the first week of this month (because I figured it was a...
  5. J

    Relationship has dwindled and I need to regain that spark again

    Try and not to send any more texts now. You have to get in the mindframe that you’re the catch. And on the outside looking in - you are the catch in this situation. Despite some of the needy things you’ve said, etc. Realize that you’re the catch and keep telling yourself that She could be...
  6. J

    Relationship has dwindled and I need to regain that spark again

    Yeah, it’s past time to cut this one loose. You’re at the point where you have to save what dignity you have left. You’re dealing with an older single mom who also smokes 20 cigs a day? C’mon man. I know you guys have history. And I know it can be hard to move on. Trust me - I know. It can...
  7. J

    Teeth

    This has been weighing on my shoulders for a bit. I guess this is more of a rant than anything. I use to have near perfect teeth. This past November I noticed my front two bottom ones start to shift a little bit. So now they're slightly crooked/shifted just a bit. In hind sight... I should've...
  8. J

    Have a date with a popular woman on Tues

    Yeah. I also just noticed she unmatched me no further communication was had after what I explained earlier in the thread oh well
  9. J

    Have a date with a popular woman on Tues

    Update: So this date for last night was scheduled this past Sat night (I counter offered). We msg a couple msgs on Sunday morning and that was it. Fast forward to yesterday. I hadn't heard from her. I know a lot of people say don't confirm (or let her confirm) the day of the date. However...
  10. J

    Have a date with a popular woman on Tues

    So I moved on from the single mother I had been previously posting about. Set up a date from OLD with a really popular chick from Tinder for this coming Tuesday. She looks like an 8-8.5 hb from her pics it said we have a couple mutual friends on FB so I looked her up. 100s of likes on her pics...
  11. J

    Single mom on Tinder

    I ****ed up I ended up texting her this morning. No reply since I take the L on this one
  12. J

    Single mom on Tinder

    She still hasn't txted me, but I noticed she added a couple more pics to her Tinder pics She does look good (I'm not going to lie) ****
  13. J

    Single mom on Tinder

    she lives with her Dad at the moment w/her kid since she just moved here a couple months ago, but I guess she could still come to my place and leave the kid with her Dad sometimes? who knows. it's a mess tbh
  14. J

    Single mom on Tinder

    Trying. I went out this past weekend. Using OLD on and off during the week since I don't have a lot of time and my best OLD convo happened to be with this single Mom I need to improve feeling a little irritated this morning not going to text her, but i probably am just another orbiter like...
  15. J

    Single mom on Tinder

    Yeah. She hasn't even texted since this past weekend. Thinking that's probably it I feel like I would be fool-ish to text her now after she gave that disclaimer just have to keep on keeping on
  16. J

    interested why women attention *****?

    I had one woman last year that I matched with. We sent a few msgs back and forth before exchanging numbers and I brought up hanging out. Instead of doing the disapearing act, she made an excuse of not having any money for two weeks till she got paid. (for **** I know I was like maybe she's...
  17. J

    interested why women attention *****?

    i feel you guys. i would say 80% of my OLD inbox is like the type of woman you're describing i've had luck on OLD in the past, but i will say the times I've used it in the last year... it's been straight up laughable almost. i've had so many promising "leads" die as well. we'd be having...
  18. J

    Single mom on Tinder

    All valid points by everyone. And good question. time to move on
  19. J

    Single mom on Tinder

    I was swiping through Tinder the other day. Matched with a 23y old single Mom with a 5 yr old who recently moved here (to Texas) from Puerto Rico a few months ago. We talk a few msgs. She actually seems pretty cool. Writes books, etc. She then gives me her number to text but gives this...
  20. J

    I am in a pathetic state

    Sounds like we had pretty much the exact same situation happen then. We knew better than to let our guard down, but we still got suckered in. Mine said she loved me a month in while we were laying in bed lol. I legit believed her. So I did leave my guard down a little. Live and learn I guess...
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