The Ultimate Guide to Success with Women

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    How do you start spinning plates

    Step 1: lower your standards a bit Step 2: cast a wide net -- approach a ton and troll the online dating sites Step 3: when you're getting laid regularly, you'll notice a perception shift in how women respond to you Step 4: start ratcheting up the standards a bit and sub in hotter women for...
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    Female dating gurus (or even PUAs)

    From what I know about her from people who used to work with her and a couple of students she had, Kezia is a good example of what this poster is talking about: http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/eledp/i_know_its_a_weird_question_but_what_is_it_like/c1920o8 Kezia apparently has some...
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    Woman's point of view"The Polish Dentist"

    Why should he expect retribution? Would she expect retribution if genders were reversed? People would be abhorred if a man did that to a woman and would probably make international headlines not as a joke, but as how women have it so bad.
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    What to do about possible LDR w/ low interest?

    Just a quick update. I'm still spinning this plate and she drove 2 hours to see me and ended up spending the night this past weekend.
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    My date cancels on me for her ex (in a sneaky way)

    baby mamma = drama And the other posters got it right, wait for her to contact you. That said, even if this goes somewhere I'm thinking limit it to pump & dump.
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    Women who are engaged in night clubs.

    Married/engaged women are often the easiest to pickup because they are generally starved for validation/attention from men because nobody ever flirts or hits on them because they have a man around most of the time. At least that's part of it I think.
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    The best way to find high interest girls

    The two things that helped me the most were: 1. Vin Dicarlo's Kino Escalation Ladder. Google it, it's free online. 2. "Fearless Relentless Escalation" from 60 Years of Challenges The short short version is get into her personal space, create sexual tension (typically with lots of eye contact...
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    Is internet dating really this bad for short men?

    Only if you put your real height in your profile. That's dumb IMO. Get some lifts/elevator shoes that give you a couple extra inches and wear those on your first couple dates. If she's digging you and you hook up, that point she's not going to care that much that you told a white lie about being...
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    I'm better than you.

    Wow, the pompous arrogance of this young kid is astounding. Heaven forbid I find value it in even after being in this community for about 5 years, and chasing tail longer than he's been alive. And no, it's not "my" material. I don't know who created it and it was passed along to me by one of my...
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    The best way to find high interest girls

    I'm finding faster success and way more investment from women when I move fast, get in their space, and escalate quickly. What really helped me recently with this is when I started using the escalation pointers in the 60 Years of Challenges. Doing stuff like you mentioned is a good way for...
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    I'm better than you.

    I'm forced to agree. I'm finding faster success and way more investment from women when I move fast, get in their space, and escalate quickly. What really helped me recently with this is when I started using the escalation pointers in the 60 Years of Challenges.
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    Let your image speak for you (comprehensive advice for improving your look)

    Rollo Tomassi to the rescue! http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2012/04/13/have-a-look/
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    What would you do if your wife acted like this on your honeymoon?

    This is where I see a lot of guys going wrong. The wife and husband should be each others best friends. Every marriage has hard times and you'll even fall out of love eventually. If you're best friends then you'll still be able to maintain the marriage until you eventually fall back in love...
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    What would you do if your wife acted like this on your honeymoon?

    The bf dying is pretty extreme and I can understand putting things on hold for a few weeks. That said, the idea she's sleeping with her friend should have been solved long loooooooong before by simply requiring any sleepovers happen at their home instead of his gf running off to the other...
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    male-directed shaming tactics used in the dating game

    This is pretty spot on in my experience. Rollo wrote something about this not long ago as well: http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2012/02/23/looks-count/
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    SIngle Sex vs. Married Sex

    I had no idea this thread was this old considering RT just posted this on his blog yesterday.
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    girls that kiss guys they just met in clubs

    Dalrock weighs in on what makes a slut: http://dalrock.wordpress.com/2012/04/20/slut/
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    Ramping up those numbers!!

    I talked to a female friend of mine about this once and she admitted she'd be put off by a guy with a lower number than she'd expect him to have, which would of course vary based on his age. Her line of thinking was "what's wrong with this guy if he can't get laid?" Basically it was the exact...
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    Sex Robots are coming

    Probably no more than legal brothels would. There would still be a stigma and people would generally avoid them. Until their usage (hookers and sexbots) become commonplace, things will remain unchanged from whatever status quo exists when they hit the market.
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    Sex Robots are coming

    Feminists were already complaining about them a while back when Heartiste/Roissy wrote about them.
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