The Ultimate Guide to Success with Women

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    Thank you red pill (my story)

    There was no respect/relationship to preserve from the get go: withholding sex, posting risque photos on the internet for attention, etc. is grounds for your man fvcking other girls in my book
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    Thank you red pill (my story)

    You never tell a girl you are going to get laid elsewhere ... you simply communicate that by getting laid elsewhere and remaining cool/calm/collected when she doesn't put out. That will get the panties off real quick.
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    Thank you red pill (my story)

    I agree with a lot of what RangerMike said .. she probably wanted to leave for a while .. and too dependent to do it on her own so she's using this out of shape internet dweeb simply to break free from you while she figures sh1t out for herself ... he'll be the next victim of her craziness down...
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    The most attractive male traits rankings (input wanted)

    I disagree with this. For example: model men get good looking chicks ... but wealthy/powerful/high status men attract the hottest girls in the world despite their looks--or at least it seems that way anecdotally
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    The most attractive male traits rankings (input wanted)

    Right now with the college football playoffs/rankings going on ... i got to wondering how 'attractive male traits' would rank...here's my ranking/list: 1. Social Status: leader/power/authority figure/winner, quantity & quality of relationships (large number of family and friends who also have...
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    What is one easy way to really improve confidence quickly?

    The gist of what im getting is that there is no real 'low hanging fruit' opportunity as it relates to gaining confidence ... Confidence seems like one of the most desirable/scarce qualities in a man (in the game of mating), and requires the most amount of work to achieve it.
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    Tell me what I already know bros (this new girl)

    not arguing that i started 'beta' .. i know i am 'beta' and trying to work on it / improve myself in this regard .. i'd like to know what blatant/obvious example was starting beta though so that i don't make the same mistake in the future. thanks in advance for any input you can provide here.
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    Tell me what I already know bros (this new girl)

    i'm done with this girl...or she made it clear she was done with me...and i have no real choice but to save some face and check out
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    What is one easy way to really improve confidence quickly?

    If you had zero confidence (none whatsoever) how would you 'improve' your confidence? walking up to random girls and starting conversation? getting ripped/fit .. etc. ? All of these things are time consuming endeavors ... what i'd like to know is the #1 way you would go about improving your...
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    Guy explains why most men can't get "hot women"

    I have to agree with deesade ... there was this girl that i couldn't believe was into me .. she was a couple points higher than i had ever dated before .. i ruined it with my own self doubt/insecurity though ... she overlooked a ton of AFC / beta behavior and i still managed to fvck it up ...
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    Guy explains why most men can't get "hot women"

    nice link thanks for posting ... i needed to see this video ...
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    Tell me what I already know bros (this new girl)

    Its settled ... i've deleted her and have moved on ... thanks for giving me the confirmation i needed as i was really confused about this one for some reason (a girls attractiveness has a funny way of "color blinding" you i guess)
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    Tell me what I already know bros (this new girl)

    you're right...that was a big time indicator... BUT all the positive rapport we built the night before seemed like it held more weight...plus i took that line as more tongue-in-cheek ... being playfully hard to get or something ...
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    Tell me what I already know bros (this new girl)

    Can you tell me where the biggest errors are? edit: also, to my credit, the very last message was sent after being intoxicated, i know that was a big error...at the time it made perfect sense though lol
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    Tell me what I already know bros (this new girl)

    I met this girl 2 nights ago doing volunteer work -- we were kind of forced to start talking due to working together. As small talk, one of the first topics that came up was how we ended up working there--she mentioned how busy she was with school/work/child/volunteering/etc. basically mentioned...
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    She got me

    basically this .. trust your intuition always with girls ... always trust it ... when a girl likes you its super obvious. and when its not super obvious its because interest is lukewarm ... or they are playing games ... both situations are mentally exhaustive and a waste of your time as a DJ ...
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    Goodbye text - is there enough indifference?

    i wouldn't have said sh1t ..
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    Can anybody tell me How to escalate on first date

    Just go for it ... i like to make my intentions known right away ... two things happen: 1. you get laid quicker, or 2. the girl isn't that interested and it surfaces instantly. So again, just go for it, do what you want. Is the girl pretty with big red lips you want to taste? kiss them I've...
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    she's sending me pics

    there's this girl who will send me pics randomly showing her titties and what not .. i dont know how to interpret it .. but i get low levels of interest in response when i take it as a que to maybe ask her out on a date .. she's busy/has something planned/etc. but every once in a while she'll...
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    Online girls who chat endlessly

    Good post .. in my experience .. these girls are simply not worth the time .. My first message goes something like this: "hey whats up blah blah blah blah" when they respond .. my next message is "I'm icantgetlaid -- what's your number, i'd like to text/call later when i have more time to...
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