Unlock the Secrets to Dating Success

New to the SoSuave forum? Start your journey to becoming a dating rockstar with our essential guide.

This comprehensive resource will give you the tools and strategies you need to overcome obstacles, build confidence, and attract the women you've always wanted.

Don't let another day go by without taking control of your dating life - start now and get ready to experience the success and fulfillment you deserve.

Thanks for visiting, and I look forward to your success!

Search results

  1. J

    you find this wrong?

    No. Any type of reasoning here would be cliche. You're 16. I'm sure there's plenty of freshman girls at your school that would be interested solely based on that.
  2. J

    Popularity...

    I can see where being popular would be important IF you attend a small school. At small schools, there's fewer crowds to hang with, so being accepted by those considered popular would give status to a budding DJ. However, if you attend a large school like myself, there's no need to be popular...
  3. J

    How do I deal with this BACKSTABBER...

    If I were in your situation, I wouldn't talk to this jack*ss again. Nobody needs a friend like him, certainly not a DJ. That was a huge display of disrespect. Don't waste your time on him anymore. As for the girl, I think you're best suited to just play it like your friend never talked to...
  4. J

    next her?

    There's probably a good explanation why she didn't answer her phone. Maybe she just wasn't home. For future referrence, only call once--if she has caller ID, multiple calls makes you look desperate. I wouldn't wait four days to call her. So you missed her with the phone call. Keep in...
  5. J

    Friend broke another friends heart.

    Hopefully no one dictates their life by sosuave.com. My reasoning for telling DX not to try to console his friend was simply people associate feelings towards someone based on the situations in which their together. If DX makes an attempt to 'be there' for his new female friend, she'll...
  6. J

    Friend broke another friends heart.

    Boogerman, you are right on the money with the progression from an AFC to a DJ. Unfortunately, Xanderbaz knows exactly what he's talking about in this case. It's best to stay out of it.
  7. J

    Good??

    A fight that she has with another guy has absolutely no bearing on her feelings for you. You made it clear that they're friends. Don't try to relate everything that she does to yourself. What you can do is assert your presence. You don't want her to forget about you? Call her. Make...
  8. J

    Friend broke another friends heart.

    It's not your job to be there for her. What happens between two of your friends in a relationship that was going nowhere fast is none of your business. Any attempt to 'be there' for this girl at this point would make it appear that you're taking her side on the issue, whether or not that is...
  9. J

    "Should I 'next' her?"

    These are about the two biggest forms of blatent disrespect I can think of. If common sense doesn't already eliminate these types, good job aero. I doubt many DJs would chase after many of these women anyway. I like your idea for the post...it needed to be done. Unfortunately, it needs...
  10. J

    analogy

    Your analogy only holds true to form assuming that you're already being noticed by girls. They'll only chase after you if they are interested.
  11. J

    Movie Question

    Why blow the money on a movie? Can't you find a basement or a back seat somewhere...and what ever happened to the days of getting bl*wjobs at the movies? She's your girlfriend. You can make out with her whenever you want. You need not be so discrete about it once you're doing it with your...
  12. J

    Eternal debate for young DJs like myself

    There's a lot of room for deliberation on most methods pertaining to women, but this one's clear cut. Always go for the digits.
  13. J

    What'd I miss?

    If she's worth it, go for it. My buddy's girlfriend lives in California and we're in Pennsylvania. They couldn't be happier. Higher peaks have been scaled. She seems like the right type, and you may not get another chance to tell her how you feel. Besides, if things go sh*tty, she lives...
  14. J

    People who criticise DJs

    Dude. That broad is smokin. She looks like she's about 25.
  15. J

    For those who have trouble with confidence

    I like your post aero, but everything you mentioned can be said in one sentence. Confidence is knowing that you're equal or better to everyone around you. Good post.
  16. J

    Girlfriend and that thing called love...

    It's very obvious from reading your post that you care about her a lot. I'm in a similar situation myself actually, except I'm the one that's going to college(I'm a senior) and she'll still have another year of highschool. The thing I have to ask myself when considering how serious I want to...
  17. J

    What to do if a girl is scared of you? Help needed...

    Highschoolers have a short memory. I wouldn't be surprised if after Christmas break everyone has forgotten about it already. But in referrence to the question, you did nothing wrong. You have absolutely no commitments to any girl, so you can do what you damn well please. It's unfortunate...
  18. J

    The Physical Tease

    This is the best post I've seen in awhile. Great work Bator!
  19. J

    Number of Girlfriends

    I've had 3. The longest one lasted 8 months. Smooth, I like your idea but you're going about it the wrong way. The number of girlfriends you've had has absolutely no correlation to how well you are with girls. In fact, if you've had more than a few, it probably means that you're not good...
  20. J

    I got out of the friends zone!

    The reason things worked out for you with this other chick is because you didn't go out with her friend for long. Had you been more serious with her or dated her longer, there isn't a chance in hell she would've started to talk sex with you. It'd be smart of you to keep things with your ex's...
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top