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The signs were pretty obvious (the sarcasm laden response instead of telling you when she was free) .. and then the proceeding messages being flaky/lukewarm "i will have to double check and make sure though" ... You seem experienced enough to see those signs and know to back off .. girls with...

this is great advice ... in my earlier red pill days .. there was this girl i was super into who was flaky about nailing a time/place down when i would ask her out .. but then she would text me randomly and ask me to meet her for lunch/coffee/etc. (literally an hour or two before she wanted to...

yea .. way too much chatter. in my experience when you text a girl they really appreciate when you get to the point plus it conveys courage/confidence. e.g. Charles: hey sarah, charles here :) hope your day is going as good as mine, i just had the best burrito ever for lunch! Sarah: hey...

lol @ this thread .. i can't believe the members here let you get away with this behavior ... there were several 'nextable' offenses she made when you were describing your situations with her back in November ... yet you continued to chase/waste emotional and financial resources/and then lose...

You gain "self love" and "self esteem" as a product of your environment through your upbringing. Based on your responses here - I think you might be taking the quality of your upbringing for granted a little bit.

It's quite rare for someone to simply think to themselves (especially growing up through adolescence) "hey i love myself, value myself, and respect myself" without the external components in their lives to support it. E.g. good home/upbringing/good family/loving supportive parents/good role...

real confidence (accepting and loving yourself) is something you earn with accomplishment/success/culture/experience/status/etc. and girls are very adept at vetting it out.

Gotta love the single-moms on these sites that have a classy paragraph long lecture at the very top of their profiles about how they are only looking for a serious relationship, followed by a "don't message me unless you meet [insert long list of demands here]" These girls are so naive/clueless...

Confidence is everything ... it's super tangible too because girls are so instinctively good at sniffing it out ... what she's REALLY looking for is ... DO YOU BEHAVE LIKE/HAVE THE CONFIDENCE that comes with being wealthy/having high status/being successful/etc. Lies are easy and girls are...

It's simple: If you are attracted to a girl, man up and ask her out for a drink. Her reaction to this request will give you all the info you need to know. In this situation, any response that isn't clearly yes/ok/etc. means that you have no chance and it's time to ghost her/move on 100%.

If a girl doesn't accept a date/doesn't counter offer .. i'll go no contact for a week or so. If i don't hear back from her during no contact, i'll give it one more shot before perma-nexting. And she'll have to display REALLY responsive & enthusiastic behavior during this second contact in order...

be careful .. lots of potential drama here .. you also don't want a false rape accusation in the event she gets caught .. it can ruin your life.

Ya ... basically any energy you might put into investing in a girl .. invest in self improvement instead ... then let them come to you.

I agree completely with the OP. It's so hard to find that combination of a girl who absolutely adores you/is fun to be around/really wants to make you happy ... who is also above your league looks wise.

this reminds me of a time where some slightly chubby girl i was *really* into commented on her curviness/thickness to me and i responded with "no you are not curvy you are fat" I thought i was being confident/funny/negging ... but the day after i realized how insulting that was. I don't think i...

This is very simple: girls that are interested let you lead them wherever you want to take them. If you want to find out whether a girl is interested in you/finds you attractive/etc. you screw your balls on tight, approach them, and ask them for their number/ask them out/and escalate. Any...

Ever since I took the red pill these type of awkward situations in relationships never happen to me. There's no "end" because there's really no beginning. You date girls (many of them), they all kind of suspect there are other girls, and they all put on their best behavior to try to earn your...

Now beauty pageant contestants are coming out saying he touched them or whatever ... This is why you NEVER date girls at work. It doesn't matter how much vibes she gave off and how much she reciprocated the flirting/touching/etc. girls can impulsively out of the blue say that you touched them...

A rule of thumb: if a girl is interested she will NEVER be confusing. She will show overt interest. She will accept your date/clear her schedule to meet you. She will be super accessible to you. Anytime I've been in a situation where a girl has played hard to get, or given mixed vibes, or was...