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This is more common than you'd think for educated girls with closed social circles who won't do the bar/club thing. If you have money and look good, join a climbing gym and climb with a partner you like, or do a 3-week vacation at a surf camp or something. If you don't have money, get a job at...

Who are safer drivers? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aHOxaxXMKt0 ;)

You're welcome dude! But do be careful of absorbing too much of that stuff... it can skew your baseline for what most women may think, and skewed baseline = red flag

If victimhood is seen as empowering... well let's face it that didn't exactly come out of nowhere. Anyway about jezebel: If Websites Were People : Jezebel.com Below, here's some bang-on quotes by a woman about jezebel, from reddit 2X: Or more to the point: If even women think...

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Thank you for keeping us focused on what's important! I met a girl at my sister's grad this weekend, A triple plus chemistry, danced with her a little, the push-pull stuff felt like hide-and-seek, I felt like a wolf eyeing a steak, she knew and would get shy and laugh, with her eyes...

The key thing is whether she is going to start offloading any past trauma onto you, or considers it her problem to deal with (which does not preclude you supporting her). Selflessness vs. selfishness essentially. The one thing I'd say is a year and a half is not that long (but I tend to be...

SXS: Brazil is not a place where women are bought and sold as property. There is a reason I did not include Latin America on my little list. And incidentally, I'd love to live there. Danger: Our version of suicide bombers are basically school shooters, yeah. They also tend to be frustrated...

lol..... nicely said

I'm pretty sure they are coming from Rollo's blog -- and he is a mod here. Put 2+2 together.

The western world is the most prosperous and least violent place to live on planet earth. I have been places where women are bought through marriage, it brings on a wealth of new, DIFFERENT problems. Bad economy = no sex. Also you might not know this (because I found it in a study at small...

I have to put my hand up for this one unfortunately. "A crazy girl's good day" is pretty hard to match. That's a great term.

I love the excitement and back-and-forth tension of meeting new women. I love seeing a glimmer in her eye and learning what piqued her interest afterwards. I love how two complete strangers can cross barriers, find common ground, and even become lovers. Discovering new people fascinates me...

Look at what you wrote -- you're desperate to keep her. That's what she saw, and that's why she's gone. If you want her back, you have to care LESS. Ironic isn't it? Your friends are correct, you have already lost her. Second, she was flaking on you and disengaging, why didn't you ditch...

Pretty much. Understand it, and stop internalizing it. It is fun cruising girls with another girl, but you're sensitive and have a bit of victim mentality which will mess up your game. You're also trying to either validate yourself in this thread or are intentionally looking to get flamed...

Who Dares Wins: Your experiences with women are supposed to be healing, not destroying. If you don't understand that -- you are digging yourself a grave with your efforts, not a foundation. You just said something very valuable, and I used to make the same mistake in thinking. Check out what...

djgirl, sincerely : you should listen to what incognito said. If misogyny and victim mentality is a defense/coping mechanism, you CANNOT change that by calmly and rationally arguing against it. You need to address the problem (ie. loneliness, psychological despair, anger over divorce...

Kimberleah : if you just chill out a little and start talking to the more intelligent posters here you might actually get something out of this site. Arguing with the irreconcilable isn't a good use of your time. You are intelligent but your judgement and self-control is atrocious. Stop...

I am more stable, cool, calm, collected than ever in my life; women are integrated as part of the world I live in, not an abstract goal that I am chasing. I have a new (nice) car, a little house to myself I'm renting, but I'm not really fulfilled in my job and understimulated -- it's hard to...

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