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hey Matrix, On sexuality, how open do you think guys should be? How do we communicate that, yet contain our desire for them? There is a delicate balance between being too sexual (jerk) and not sexual enough (nice guy).. how do we find that intermediate?

This post comes at a good time.. I often second-guessing or watch what I say when around attractive women. I should be comfortable with myself to say whatever..

Don't want to go where DeepDish? I have to agree with icepick on this.. Weininger and Nietzsche were hermits.. they are looking at life through a filter instead of experiencing it. Mr. Fingers said it correctly: "The world exists to teach us, and we exist to learn and to grow, and more...

Aww, and I was hoping for the Book of Man next.. really our "purpose" or whatever you want to call it is to grow and learn.. and have fun. I don't even plan on diving into man's or woman's "purpose".. what IS the purpose in that? I don't even think our minds can comprehend that.. and why bother...

This is great tip! :) Shows your listening, and women love that.. Besides, I'm always forgetting peoples names whom I have just met..

Great post.. I agree that so often people are trapped by their own fears. It's silly when you look at it from outside, but somehow very real when living it. A member on this forum (Kaizen) mentioned that the only fears we are born with are the fear of falling, and the fear of loud noises. That...

All I can say about mindset is that it comes through experience and learning.. I think Pook's posts about mindset are great to read, because thats the kind of stuff we should be striving for. HOWEVER, there is so so much more you have to do to get that, and that is to get your ass out...

Excellent replies guys.. So much truth in all of this.. and I realized something today. I create my own happiness. Its all up here in my little mind. People's opinions of me can be damned. As Pook says (and I love this quote), "By verdict of your soul, don't let anything steal your joy"...

True that icepick, A lot of people pick quick pleasure over happiness. Be happy guys.. there is so much in the world to be happy about. Guys, C+F is all about having a fun attitude. Its not something you should try and 'act' like.. Its just being fun and playful.. don't be rude, don't be...

MDgood, Haha, nice one and I agree. You can't get everyone to like you. You have to develope the kind of personality and character that you want and let that stand for itself. Screw what others think. VIVAlasVEGASBaby, Right on.. Man that actually inspired me. Im going to the coast for...

Thanks for your responses guys. They were great. Captain Anonymous, Good point. It is about being comfortable with myself and in my abilities. htemorp, I see what you are saying.. I was very insecure about my looks through out highschool, and now that my face cleared and got a lot...

Guys I'm plagued. I care too much about what others think of me. I've wasted a lot of time worrying how I might be percieved by others. Is there any advice on getting the trump attitude where you just don't give a **** about what other people think about you? Or is it something you just have...

The revolution is coming.. :D Great stuff as usual.

Happiness This is a great post.. Happiness. It's all about loving the little things. Take a look around for god's sake (no, really), at how beautiful the world is. The smells, the sounds, the people, the details that we so often miss. Observe the world, love and take pride in the little...

Re: To Pook , Icepick , Deep dish and xblitz Hey HB_Hunter, Guidelines..!? Policies!? I can almost safely assure you that those guys don't abide by and policies or guidelines. So you've read article after ARTICLE, and you still feel as something is missing. I've fallen into that trap...

I use good old NotePad.. I used to write on paper, but it took a lot longer, and I often change my mind on something in mid-thought. Its just alot easier typing (except its not portable unless you have a labtop). But taking a journal is a great idea. For nothing else than just writing...

hb, How can you overcome this fear? Don't get yourself in those kind of situations! There are always ways of avoiding stuff like that. Walk tall, and be respectful to others. Respect yourself, and other people will respect you. ..And stop getting in arguments with girls that have...

I did a post on this before, but everyday since then I come to realize more and more what focusing on yourself means. You focus on what YOU do. Not what others DO or SAY. What YOU say or do. It becomes more of a reality every day once you realize to focus on yourself. Rather than...

Kaizen, There is going to be a time when we all leave. You have to decide when that is going to be. It seems to me your satisfied with where you want to be (with women). You've said you never really had trouble with women.. thats great. Thats why most people are here. ..Maybe there is...

Don't just work upper-body. Do squats and dead-lifts as well. You won't even get half the results doing upper body only. Squats put enormous strain on your nervous system allowing for more muscle growth all over your body. Don't cheat yourself.