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    Friend Zone Jeopardy

    I thought so too that she is trying to get her orbiter back. After all free attention but a small part says there is some attraction but OP needs to play it cool like mentioned earlier.
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    Plate just called hijacking our plans. She claims her cousins wanted to hangout with her and she is bringing them to mine.

    Not anymore. She moved back home. And cant really go out. But the night wasnt a waste, played poker with the boys.
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    Plate just called hijacking our plans. She claims her cousins wanted to hangout with her and she is bringing them to mine.

    Too early, not vetted her yet. City is still in lockdown so only plans are at each others houses. Of course her last minute addition of her cousins is of no value to me. She's more than free to go elsewhere. Her cousin isnt half as attractive but I like this. Plate for 2 months Fair...
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    Plate just called hijacking our plans. She claims her cousins wanted to hangout with her and she is bringing them to mine.

    I would never accept this from an LTR also. Especially when its so last moment. No contact for a week.
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    Update:Texas boy who's mother is trying to disfigure

    Wow. Looks like people failed biology.
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    Which of these options is the best for a first date

    My top pick is the Zoo then the drink. 3. Is can be made fun. You can banter and get her laughing, plus its different from most other things guys suggest such as walk in the park or ice cream etc. 1. Is cheap and low effort. Never get more invested than her. Cant go wrong here
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    Plate just called hijacking our plans. She claims her cousins wanted to hangout with her and she is bringing them to mine.

    Exactly. She thinks I want to meet her cousin whom Ive interacted with once in my life. The fact that 1 cousin gives me bad vibes is another matter. A night with her cousins means no sex for me. What get me more angry is she was willing to drop plans to accommodate others.
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    Plate just called hijacking our plans. She claims her cousins wanted to hangout with her and she is bringing them to mine.

    Not my cup of tea. I lost frame and told her my plans were with you not your cousins. She insisted both her cousins would leave within 2 hours. But I stood my ground and told her to enjoy her night with her cousins. Soft nexting her for a week because of this drama. A part of me says this is a...
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    Need your help

    Be indifferent. Treat her like any other neighbour, smile or head nod acknowledgement.
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    Standards.

    Unfortunately most women are like that. Its normalized so such an extent that even a 5 think she deserves a billionaire chad hung like a horse. I agree that for anything long term its better to walk away from women over 25. I have not met a single girl over 25 who isnt damaged or have excess...
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    Girl initiate texts to keep orbiters. And rationalize it as being friends? Or subconsciously to keep backup provider for when they hit the wall?

    So last night a plate was bitching about meeting some guy her friends want to set her up. She avoided him for multiple months, relented and finally met him. She showed me messages of her drafting a nice rejection message with her gfs. Guy doesn't get that she isnt very interested and still...
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    my 4 signs of manipulation

    Not sure I agree with this 100%. Why? I let them buy me things all the time. Sometimes I demand items too. But that doesn't mean because they bought me XXX I'm going to do YYY. I can see your point. They try to manipulate by thinking, If bought him XXX he'll have some shame and do YYY. Or...
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    Question in here to any Indian/South Asian guys doing well or those who know one that is.

    All types for the lighter skinned guys For the the others it really was a mixed bag but a lot of latino. Weirdly the white girls were receptive compared to some of the europeans. One Bulgarian chick did a complete 180 when she found out he was born in India.
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    What exactly is sweet talking a girl? Whats the difference between a DJ and a simp sweet talking?

    Lets not go into that. She was stringing along a few guys too. I was not averse to a relationship with her, just not at that time. I'm fine if she leaves. Just want to learn how to feed them scraps. I can be quite cold and aloof. This is what gets me. The providing but being dominant. I got...
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    Should single men go for single mommies because they are proven to have at least 1 successful relationship?

    Lol. Hamster spinning at lightspeed. A broken cup was once successful at being useful, its not of any use now is it?
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    How to interact with a woman who rejected you?

    For social circle, Treat her as a stranger. Interact with her but dont pay much attention. Drives them wild, they come back stronger and reverses the LJBF but it isnt worth it. The best way is to live well and not really include her in your life.
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    Question in here to any Indian/South Asian guys doing well or those who know one that is.

    Might be racist but the Indian guy who does well doesnt look like the stereotypical South Asian. They have lighter skin tones. Hell I mistook the guy for being some from some central european country. But be an exotic commodity and you;ll do well. Ireland or Iceland would have far too few Indians.
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    The movie "Casino" is an excellent example of female narcissism

    I remember seeing casino as a kid. Dont remember much of the plot lines but just so happens that I put it into my to be view list on prime. I guess a lot of gangster/mafia movies follow the same premise. Touch alpha guy meets girl. Girl causes problem. Alpha tries to fix it and in the process...
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    What exactly is sweet talking a girl? Whats the difference between a DJ and a simp sweet talking?

    My last plate broke because I was didnt calibrate was far too aloof and gave non-provider vibes. I overheard her talk to friends that she realised the "relationship wasnt going anywhere". She didnt bring this up overtly so I could use some form of dangling the carrot for "The Talk". I was...
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