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    Unexpected 3rd date flank

    To be honest, its just 11pm in the place where I live so I am bored as fvck, my buddy couldnt meet me today so I spent all evening at home :) As for this girl, i am not too worried about her attraction. she is just 17 and probably is just shy and unexperienced... i mean she was the one doing all...
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    Unexpected 3rd date flank

    so guys, any tips on my next step? we technically set up a date for this Saturday during our last date. I haven't get in touch with since last Sunday, she didnt either... Here are the options I consider: a) text her today/tomorrow telling that I have half day on Friday so we can meet on Friday...
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    Age difference

    well, most of my friends went for 23-27...probably i picked not the best pics, i linked her page to my friends so they could have checked all of them. i obviously hinted that she is young in this topic... but anyways she turned 17 few weeks ago. i feel freaking weird
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    Age difference

    I figured out recently how old is the girl I date.. It turns out I am 6 years older lol. I will share her actual age, but take a guess first.. Problem is that my family knows her family for a long time, will they think I am freaking weirdo or so? The first time I ever met her, I was like "shyt...
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    Unexpected 3rd date flank

    Never set up a date while on date. Hm...How then I should have played it? It sucks arranging for a date thru texting. It also not that easy to be "mysterious" as she knows that it is unlikely that we will meet during regular work week. She also leaves for vacations on 15th so technically we can...
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    Unexpected 3rd date flank

    Decided to update wtf is going on with my case as I have found pretty useful advices in this thread and on the website in particular. So lets start, After she agreed to go out with me (after flaking one of our date) thru texting, we arranged to meet this Saturday and we pretty much spent whole...
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    Unexpected 3rd date flank

    Oh yea, gotta wait 3 long days... Next tricky thing is when to make a move as I suck when it finds to starting to kissing. IMO making this first physical or kissing step is so much more difficult in comparison to getting the actual *****. In case of *****, worst case will be like "I like u but...
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    Unexpected 3rd date flank

    haha, fvck yea. she texted "Yes, on the weekend" "Saturday?"
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    Unexpected 3rd date flank

    I think I will text within next 20 minutes or so. Gentlemen, place your bets I will text something like that I will stay in the city over the weekend, we can meet it. something like this, i am not sure about the exact wording Now, getlemen, place your bets a) No response b) Something like "Yea...
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    Unexpected 3rd date flank

    It is not that easy to mess that up using iMessage.. It also took her about 60 minutes to text that.. But I can see your thought, can be that she misstyped that to me, i directly asked her to meet again right away, she was nice and decided to not flake me and said "yes." BUT she followed up on...
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    Unexpected 3rd date flank

    Double posted that. Can't find delete button using my phone
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    Unexpected 3rd date flank

    Very nice man, thanks a lot. Great stuff. Just a note. After the first date, SHE was the first one who followed up on Wednesday. Anyway, I agree that I should have waited longer to ask her to go out again. Going back to video
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    Unexpected 3rd date flank

    As for needy behavior, I shared what I thought deep inside after the second date, I didnt really care much after our first one. During our dates and even texting sample, I am pretty sure I didnt act desperate or needy, at all. In fact, when I date or even just meet people, I am somewhat close to...
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    Unexpected 3rd date flank

    **** is so tough when you care, jesus christ. As for physical escalation.. it is tricky one because I care what she will think. Important reason is that my family knows her family for decades. Maybe she wanted to be nice and just accomodate me, to become friends and sh1t as I JUST moved to the...
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    Unexpected 3rd date flank

    Any other ideas? I am trying to decide whether I should text her TODAY asking about her plans. Good thing about this decision - no more uncertainty, just a coin flip, whether we meet or we dont in case she is not interested anymore/wont even reply. OR I maybe I should wait until the end of the...
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    Unexpected 3rd date flank

    Hm, interesting thoughts. Indeed I probably should have been more aggressive. I will wait now probably until Thursday to text her asking out if she will not text me earlier. If she will respond, I will make adjustments. If not, next I guess. But this one is tricky too. I have to mention that she...
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    Unexpected 3rd date flank

    ok, lets take this approach. 1) Over next few days, even today, i can overcome that feeling. At least lets assume that I can. What will be my next step? option 2) let's assume I want to form a longer relationship, does this type of objective fits this forum?:)
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    Unexpected 3rd date flank

    As I mentioned, I dated/banged quite a bit of chicks. Hot ones, ugly ones, fat ones etc. I never cared about them, I had cases some girl would just stop talking to me and never really cared. This case is SO DIFFERENT, she had something no other girl had. I don't really even want to bang her, she...
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    Unexpected 3rd date flank

    well, maybe. But the thing is that she cancelled that date and didnt respond... my next step is?
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    Unexpected 3rd date flank

    sorry for billions of typos and bad spelling as well as badly organized post :) but this is very important, drop some thoughts please
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