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It's been said that in the beginning of a relationship, everything is perfect and all is well. But as time goes by, both parties start "being themselves" and thus, becomes the test of whether they can put up with each other's nuances and if the relationship is built to last. Question here is...

Totally understand and agree. I've been sleeping well the past week, and the anxiety I've been feeling for whatever reason, is gone. I was civil about the earrings situation and just texted back to keep them. They were a gift and she should keep them. After a few back-n-forth texts, she said...

You make some great points. I think in this case, the distance makes the heart grow fonder, but also makes the pain worse because it's so easy for me to fly/drive up and see her. If I don't see her, it'll be easier to get over and live life "offstage" as you say. I totally understand what...

Guys, thanks for the support. I've been doing well with NC ever since taking people's advice here. Just yesterday, she called and left a voicemail. For Christmas, I gave her a set of really nice earrings(~$300) which at the time(obviously) our feelings were mutual and deserved. She wants to...

I know there are no guarantees in any relationship, but for the MOST part a 25-30 year old would be a little more stable. Next time I know better. Even though she's supposedly full-on emotionally into it, I should just let her know enough and keep her guessing and working hard for me instead...

So, even though we put in the work to establish a foundation in the first 3 months, it's all gone to hell. It just sounds so out of left field. I know I gotta do things for myself, so I don't look pathetic in front of her, and re-establish a life. BUT, if I am not in communication with her...

That's something I had reservations with when we started dating. Me being 30, I knew we were in different stages of our lives. BUT, who doesn't love a cute 21 year old? If I run into a similar situation, should I just avoid it all together? Not to sound idealistic, but could one DJ them off...

I live in L.A., and met my girlfriend 4 months ago while traveling for work in San Francisco. We hit it off and started a long distance relationship. She's 21 and still in school and I'm 30 and working. She was able to visit 1-2 times a month for a week at a time, and I'd be there for a few days...