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    BPD ex, had rebound, how to proceed

    The point isn’t to try to diagnose toxic individuals or find strength to fight off their bullying, if it occurs. The point is to eject early when recognizing signs of significant toxic behavior. No matter how strong you are, toxic individuals with cluster B can and or will attempt to find and...
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    BPD ex, had rebound, how to proceed

    Problem is for many, myself included, was not knowing or ignoring what to look for in their toxic behavior before being sucked in. The eject handle should have been immediate when she warned me about herself and I frequently googled her erratic behavior. The takeaway: toxic behavior will...
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    Charlie Brown (BPD) Experience

    Getting emotionally wrapped up in a legitimate one is enough for a lifetime. The biggest mistake is ignoring their words when they warn you how fu$&@d up they are.
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    Charlie Brown (BPD) Experience

    Where are you meeting this many girls with diagnosed BPD?
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    My wife and her wandering eyes

    Perhaps, she is doing this as a s#%^ test. The OP’s postings do show a hint of insecurity and control issues (not just referencing the flirting) this early in the marriage. Buyer beware. Easy solution, she strays-she gtfo.
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    My wife and her wandering eyes

    The tighter the leash, the further she will stray.
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    Sexy As Hell.. But Damaged Broken Woman!

    How many drug hits does a user take before he walks away? In terms of the relationship, probably around the beginning of the devaluation phase. Then the physical and/or emotional withdrawal phase of addiction kicks in.
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    Your opinion on a coworker

    The irony of being strung along for months.
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