The point isn’t to try to diagnose toxic individuals or find strength to fight off their bullying, if it occurs. The point is to eject early when recognizing signs of significant toxic behavior.
No matter how strong you are, toxic individuals with cluster B can and or will attempt to find and...
Problem is for many, myself included, was not knowing or ignoring what to look for in their toxic behavior before being sucked in.
The eject handle should have been immediate when she warned me about herself and I frequently googled her erratic behavior.
The takeaway: toxic behavior will...
Getting emotionally wrapped up in a legitimate one is enough for a lifetime. The biggest mistake is ignoring their words when they warn you how fu$&@d up they are.
Perhaps, she is doing this as a s#%^ test. The OP’s postings do show a hint of insecurity and control issues (not just referencing the flirting) this early in the marriage. Buyer beware. Easy solution, she strays-she gtfo.
How many drug hits does a user take before he walks away? In terms of the relationship, probably around the beginning of the devaluation phase. Then the physical and/or emotional withdrawal phase of addiction kicks in.
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