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Honestly dude, the only reason to why I would encourage you to pursue hanging out with this girl is for you to learn the lesson on what you shouldn't do. All practice is good though. Maybe you'll get some out of it. A few points if you do suggest to her to do something - keep it short...

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THIS! Good work man! :up:

So.... Day 2 months+ I have to say this thread really helped me in the beginning. As most men, I do believe in some CONSISTENCY. The rules in the first post of this thread were the ones I've been following during September. Now, when looking back on it, I'd say the first couple of weeks...

:up: this is the way to do it. Feel free to chat up with him, he might actually be a cool guy. And if you guys are buddies it will decrease the chance of him doing anything with your GF. Unless he's a low, no-morale duche.

... or you can spin other plates. What happened since you say you f'kd up? Did you TELL her that you love her or something? Healthy competition is cool with me, but it seems this girl of yours got you by the b4lls.... I would have considered her to have 1 strike, another strike and I...

Hum... to me this one smells of a possible red flag. Unless she's one of those girls who wants to get with her dad... Freud y'know... then it seems she's trying to put you into the friends zone. Be careful! You could use it to your advantage though, if she misbehaves in any way you can pull...

Fingerling, man... why do you keep doing this to yourself? It's like watching an animal slowly drowning in mud. - obviously it seems that she has cut your b4lls off man... which seems to be the major problem here - dude, this just sounds like some net she put out so that you wouldn't bail...

I don't see the problem, as she wants you to set up date ideas you get to do the planning. Take her to anything YOU find to be fun and exciting... this way you don't have to put up with girls "awesome" ideas of going to the mall and whatnot.

Does "not wearing naughty lingerie" count? :P If so I've got a few examples. But in all seriousness, I know a few girls who, at first glance are hotish, but they use snus, so yeah... no thanks.

Dude, don't fall into the temptation of trying to contact her. This is her way of trying to get attention from you. She's throwing you a sh1t test to see if she can still get to you. She doesn't care HOW she'll get to you, and will thus play some low-life under the belt disrespectful sh1t to get...

Day 8 Bryce: Yeah, that's some low quality stuff there. Just forget about her, she's making you feel bad about yourself and second guessing yourself. No need to keep that around. Are you keeping any of your mates around that bring you down? Didn't think so. Then why should an ex get a better...

Day 7 Have to admit, I had a run-in with this NC-girl yesterday. I was heading down the street and saw two girls approaching, thought I knew them, but the lights were out so I wasn't too sure. Anyways, I said 'Hello' just to be on the sure side, and just as the last syllable left me I...

fingerling To me it is both, probably because I'm thinking that if I get to meet up with her I can move in with KINO and get more intimate with her. Which is a big load off BS. The way I see it there's no way I should be bothered to give her any part of my time, which she so "friendly"...

Day 3 Woah, what can I say? While studying today I thought about indifference and told myself "heck, I'm probably down on the indifferent level and should call her, ask if she wants to grab a bite for lunch or something". Didn't do it though. Took a deep breath and asked myself "So...

My work/studies are within health-care, so STDs are usually not a problem, I see your point though BT2008... Horaholic, thanks for the input man... When I was thinking through the wether it was right or not to only let the chemistry guide me I felt it was a big one, 'cuz up until now that's...

After one of my plates decided to give me the LJBF I'm trying to improve my inner game further, and realized that the only that my main qualification on women is wether I feel there's a good chemistry between us. If it is, then I set up further dates. However what I realized is that by going...

dantherman: honestly bro, to me her "I wanted to talk" sounded more like a "i wanted to talk to you so I could have a chance of convincing you to still be my friend". Basicly only a win-situation for her. You'll do right in keeping the NC game tight. She had her chance, you told her you wouldn't...

Day 1 Just got dumped and given the whole LJBF speech, so here I am... day 1. My case is that we attend the same faculty at school and are also involved in some extra-curricular activities. Thus I need to allow myself to talk to her occasionally, but ONLY if it is in a group with the other...

I would do as the previous posters have suggested, talk to her, if she initiates communication, but keep it "professional" and "cold". If she broke up with you she must also realize she cut herself off from you hanging with her as much as when you were a couple.