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Thanks for the reality check, man. I would say that yeah, she's a little more rule-based than I'm used to and her biggest obstacle is in being flexible. I am qualifying her on that point. IDK what happened but her behavior changed suddenly one day when I made clear that I was ready to walk...

As an update to this... things have been going well. We were in bed the other night and she informed me that she stopped seeing other guys weeks ago. Not that she was seeing anyone else, but she's cute and gets asked out about 5 times a week. She told me that she usually accepts about half of...

I understand your skepticism but on the other hand, she has not lied to me so far. We are the same age. She called me up tonight to chat. Her level of contact has shot way up. It's a wait and see.

Thanks man. Yeah, I was kinda on the same page as you until today... because that's the impression she and the facts gave. After the group date tonight, she asked to make out. In the course of doing so, she apologized for seeing the other guy. She said that she didn't want to cancel with...

Just an update. She called me as she was going into dinner with the married dude and we talked until he showed up. An hour and 15 minutes later, she called me from public transit telling me that she was on her way over to my neighborhood with a bottle of wine. She was pretty suggestive and...

Yeah, I'm basically out. Since she doesn't do calls or texts normally, it's pretty hard to freeze her out that way. I did give her some serious ice at the end of the night when she started going on about how she can't sleep well next to someone. On the one hand, she says she wants to go...

Thanks man. She had a meeting tonight that got postponed last minute, so she went from maybe-drinks to coming over for dinner. Brought some wine. Then we proceeded to hook up for 4 hours. Everything except sex (which for personal reasons, I'm not going for right now). She was very...

Saw her last night. Things went great. She's really into me and apologized preemptively for giving me the impression that she's too busy. She just doesn't like text/phone (low maintenance in a good way). Now she wants me to meet her friends and hinted about meeting a sibling. She had...

Yeah, I think this one needs a light touch. It's just weird to find a woman who doesn't check in at least once a day. I heard nothing from her today. Not surprised, either. I initiated the last couple days and did not today. I'm not needy enough to need a text everyday, I guess I've just...

Hey man, Part of my job is to do sales. So I know how frustrating dead ends can be. In sales, we would call a number a hot lead. Someone has expressed interest and you have their contact info. The thing about leads is that people often lie about their interest for one reason or another...

Solid advice. Thanks! One thing I have on my side is that she isn't manipulative at all. I don't think she's the type to lay a trap in the form of a sh*t test. The hesitancy about the weekend could also involve that she's a little overwhelmed by schedule right now.

Talk about a great starting point for the advice on here. You really tapped into a vein of concern I have -- that I appreciate reassurance on a fairly frequent basis. That's my problem. Neediness is so a turnoff, I know. The way I've tried to combat this is by thinking: "if she likes our...

Hey guys, I'm a new poster but have learned a lot from the forum over the years. Anyway, I'm in my late 20s and recently met a woman who I consider LTR potential. Been going out for a couple months. We're the same age, she went to great schools, has a strong family, healthy relationship with...