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To quote rollo: you can not negotiate desire! https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/25/the-desire-dynamic/

As I Said I broke up in June 2016. I did the above things. Lot of travelling. And it was good. As Long as I was busy there was no problem. I saw my ex again in the end of Nov because we had Tickets for a concert. I saw no Problem because I was doing fine. On the concert I was on top and let...

2,5 month NC - Break up 7.5 month Instead of getting better it feels worse and worse. I feel so betrayed by that girl and I can not go back Even if she wanted to - but on the other Hand i am graving for the good times, the companionship we had for nearly 8 years- or better said i think we...

So the answer is to let oneself be used to whatever end a woman wants? That is not what I am willing to let happen - and you neither I guess?!

So this is the tragedy of our lives.... in our younger days, when we were some kinda nice guys, we could not get the girls we wanted but would have been ideal for a LTR how women would like it today. After coming to the redpill awareness we can get the girls but are no longer willing to take up...

Yes - and what if you go one step further? You knowing how to Play the Game, you know the rules, but After clearly thinking you come to the conclusion that you do not want that, that you refuse to play the game. Its one thing to see the relality and play along but a total other thing to...

Totally agreed - and that is so fcuking sad. If you are bluepill and able to get a chick you like, you do not have the problems in an LTR nor in choosing a qualitiy woman that we have. Because as bluepill you do not see the bullshxt women put up and you are willing to supplicate and do...

Thats in my case. But could one imagine a cenario in generell where one can get back with an Ex where they can fix what caused the breakup the first case? I do not think so.

Thats what I think to.

I am just reading some older posts, but the question it brings up remains the same. What I wonder: is there ever a case, where the original cause of the breakup can be fixed? Today is another day, I miss my ex. I will not contact, because on a logical basis I know no good will come out ever...

Someone on here once said something along the lines: a man loves a woman but a woman loves the feeling of being in love. It has been nearly ten years ago when I read those words on here, but they got burned into my brain. Think thats for a reason.

Not every woman- but what about the hot ones - in other words: the ones that you/we want. The ugly fatty will not sleep around due to lack of options. The Point after all is not if they really do, but that there is a high possibility a hotty you want may sleep around and due to that is not...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/bradd80s-secret-guide-to-mastering-the-don-juan-way-of-life.197705/page-4 Scroll down to LESSON XXI: HOW TO IDENTIFY WHETHER A GIRL HAS BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER Also very good knowledge here...

Yes, it seems as if there is one DJ in a thousand men. Nearly impossible to encounter somebody with the same thoughts about Women in your social circle . There are some that seem to get it by their own but they are far from what WE are thinking. I hate to see all those white knights in shining...

This goes not for BPD women. While every normal women dates up, as described about above - BPD women tend to date down. Always searching for an easier to manipulte target. Money is not the main case for them. Security means for them not having to be alone. Thats why the settle as fast as...

Hey I totally get your Point. But no prey of the tiger would ever consider to get in to a relationship with a tiger or spining plates with a tiger. Prey runs like hell if it sees a tiger and therefore does not have to bother about the tigers morality. All the prey needs to know - as it does...

You might like to read this if you have not already. The Black Swan: The Impact of the Highly Improbable

That makes more sense- but that means going further, not back. It is more like going through a Tunnel and instead of stopping you keep an walking till you get through it until you reach the light at the end of it. There is no going back.

How do you go back over the line? You can not forget what you have seen! It is like Plato's allegory of the cave. Once you have seen the reality of things behind the shadows, you can never go back in the cave and take the shadows for the Reality. Going back that line? Sounds like going bluepill...

You do - but how many others would not? Especialy the betaAFCs that have no other option. If a man has options he has no need to be a steady orbiter to a girl which is in a relationship. You said you would fcuk her - thats it. The Girl says, she is no longer in a relationship eventhough she...