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KILLSKITTIE Can you please please make your reply an own outstanding thread. What you wrote here is golden. It is so Spot on. If you do not make it its own Thread in the tip section - I will do by copy and past with mentioning you as author. This is so important to understand, that most or all...

Offtopic: where in Germany are you from?

Btw. My Ex NPD/BPD which emailed me on monday, send an SMS this morning: did you receive my Email? Whats next? Her showing up at my door? How Do I react than, and "explain" why I did not answer to anything anymore?

That was a 8 year relationship, with a what turned out to be a BPD/NPD girl. Breakup was now 8month ago. And mistake was to go no contact onl after 5 month and not from the beginning. For the five month it seemed as I could handle it without NC. And as I said before, two things came together...

Nothing fcuking Wrong with you. Had a similar Situation, Five month after the breakup, I was out to have fun on a concert with a Girl and met my ex there with her new Boyfriend. That night I was totaly down Eventhoug having sex with another Girl. Maybe thats just Part of the game.

Do not count on that. Break up more than a half year ago. She replaced je immediately and had the new one move in. NC nearly 3month now. She still is trying to make contact on a regular basis. Nearly exactly all Four weeks.

That was exactly my situation. Weird how it all works the same.

Your spot on. But now imagine somebody getting involved with such a chick who has not been redpill beforehand like us! I would say good luck and good night.

Fcuk. Same with Mine. I just felt as if I could look into the future.

Ignore, ignore, ignore. She is searching for attention. Any reply is feeding her need for attention. Indifference is what you and I are aiming for. Stay no contact.

Smoking? i Do more compare it with heroin. Good Song to stay sober, Must have been writen from a guy who had to deal with one of these bytches.

Mine didn 't cur either. And like yours it was my second one. So I should have known what I was dealing with. I even had been careful in the begining. But I didn't know there were different types. So i slided into the fcuked up process and stayed way to long. When it all went down signs became...

My ex BPD works like a Clockwork..... Since the breakup she contacted me at every two weeks - like a routine. You all know I Do nor respond to any of this for 3 month now, Four weeks ago it was my Birthday, she tried to invite herself but I ignored it. She called me on my birthday- I ignored. I...

That one is an interesting. What is your opinion on that? I say: Love? There is no such thing as love on the site of the woman: It is just a disney word for hypergamy. Woman can love the way you make them feel but never love you as a person the way you as man do Love a woman.

We make them little, because we Do nor want to see the truth and let this one pass. You yourself Said that you saw it all in the begining and even joked about it.

Yes, I know way to good. She has nearly no Girl Friends and almost only guy Friends? Ah...that little red flag can not be that Bad. She is so sweet. Do I realy want to let this one pass only just because of some guys on the internet telling this to be a red flag. Nah- I will be able to handle...

From my own experience. When we start actively ignoring red Flags, even if it is just a single one, that is when misery begins.

What indeed is oftentime the case! ;-)

That one is also thrown around here on sosuave once in a while. And it always irritates me. Because it implicates that there is a one for you. But the opposite, that there is no one, was the first ,and I would say, one of the most important truths, I learned when I came to this site 9years ago.

There is indeed. Rollo is one of the famoust posters from the early days on sosuave. There is an article fo r nearly any Situation a Male can have with a woman.