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Hi Quick question; What is the best/easiest way to lower ones own interest level in a particular girl? I'm in a situation, where I'm dating a girl who has flaked a few times, is constantly busy and seems to communicate with frustrating slowness. I haven't gone/done anything AFC or...

Hi guys, Real quick one, Been dating a HB 6 (7 on best day) for around 6 weeks now I'm constantly getting messages from her saying she misses me etc, but I'm pretty busy with life, work etc. On the whole, I've been dating her maybe once week average, when were both free and she...

Hi guys, Got a little problem with a HB6/7 I've been dating about a month. Everything seems to be going okay, but problem is she has a tendancy to flake and cancel dates on me. It has happened about 5-6 times in last 2 weeks. Range of excuses, child's I'll, has to babysit somewhere...

Harry Wilmington, that answer was absolute gold. Only question, I'd there not a chance that by him not texting she could assume he is not interested? And so by not wanting to look desperate/needy she could abandon the date on those grounds?

Hi guys, Got a bit of a curious situation regarding a girl ive been seeing. Basically she Appears to have Very high interest level, but due to a couple of things, ie ignoring my messages when I know she's online, making me wait long periods, one broken date I'm very confused. Alsoshe...

She responded with "So youd stop seeing me if we didn't have sex every time?" I replied, "no but I just don't want to be celibate for the next three months. That's not what I'm really looking for at the moment" She then initiated sex a few minutes later

Hi guys, Quick situation with a girl I've been dating here.... Went round to see her last night, and up to now we have been very sexual with each other. She has put out on demand, every time I've been there. During general conversation last night she suggests we should be celibate for...

She's 31 Seems nice, would initially appear to be loyal and have no orbiters, looks after me and fvcks on demand Still only 2 weeks in so could be on her best behaviour

Hi Just a quick one guys, I've been seeing a girl for are under 2 weeks and its her Birthday tomorrow. I'm seeing her tonight, and considering taking a little present/card for her to wake up with. Im aware that spontaneous gifts are a no, no and interest level killer so I'm unsure how...

Here's my humble two cents worth...... I was in a similar situation after I split with my children's mother, just really didn't know what to do with myserlf and felt very lost. Literally like banging my head against a wall, same as yourself. You need to find something to invest your new...

Yeah I think that must be what Im doing wrong... I put a bit of time into it this week and got about 6 numbers, talked too much I think. They brought up their exes, emotional state, work, life etc and basically lots of rubbish I didn't care about. The best response I ever got was...

Hi guys Just a quick one, in regards to my recent experimenting with chatting to people on POF. In general, I am able to get replies, make conversation with women, even GA phone numbers etc etc.....My issue is, after a few days they just seem to grow bored or give up and do not talk any...

Just a quick one, I recently began learning and researching some of the things on here and putting them into practice... One thing I've noticed, that whilst certain things/tips work very well, ie not calling/texting a lot increases her interest level, and so on there appears to be certain...

Update; Went NC with her during the week, stuck to it, but got home last night to find her parked outside my house. As soon as I arrive, she gets out and asks why I'd been ignoring her. Told her its no longer her concern, and asked her to move her car from my parking bay. She then goes wild...

Cheers for the advice fellas.. Decided earlier that life is too short, did some weights, sit ups then got dressed and went out....no point sitting around worrying about things, when I can alter the present. In respect to NC, she knew I was going out and has blown up my phone this evening big...

Update: Just as an update to the situation, she told me she was going to her exes house for food, a film and to walk the dog on Thursday night. I called her up outright on it on Wednesday and split point-blank with her over the phone. She accused me of being insecure, jealous etc but my...

Gs750 they were together 18 months but split in April this year, and officially called it quits on 28th June Think I may be the but of a rebound from the looks of things. Either way, you guys have enlightened me to a level of disrespect I had not seen up until this point

Ok, sounds about right; I'm curious though... Can anyone give me a solid answer as to why a girl would remain such close (very close) friends with an ex?

Update Thanks for the replies guys, think there's a lot to be learnt and applied from this. As a development, she had a meeting with her ex on Sunday and told him they are just friends and she was seeing someone. She stated since, that it is my fault and I pressured her through insecurity...

Hi chaps Got a bit of a situation arisen, that I'm pretty unfamiliar with and wondered if any one had any similar experience or advice from past happenings. Been seeing a girl now for a while and recently her ex has popped back into the picture. She split with him in April this year and...