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I think I know why I'm afraid. I think it must be from my past experiences of being bullied and an outcast at school for years. I was a very nice kid, but I was too goody-goody, a bit goofy and effeminate. I moved to a school where I knew nobody so I was an easy target. After that people would...

Yea you're right, it's sad to say but I need to man the **** up. I just have to accept it that I've lost a grip on my confidence, and start at square one. I hate this fear in me, and it is true, it's draining the **** out of me in social situations. Man I regret not getting this fixed sooner...

I think the main part of the reason why I may have trouble with women is because I fail to get in touch with my masculinity, specifically in the context of social situations and communicating with women. I didn't have a particularly close relationship with my father, and he passed away as soon...

Going out alone is something I want to do a lot. I dont think I'm ready yet though in terms of confidence. I hope to work my way up to it soon after I become more comfortable asking out women and talking to strangers. Thanks man I'm slowly getting there where I fully believe in myself. Your...

Exactly! It really annoys me. But from this experience im going to learn not to take girls checking me out as a definite sign that they are interested in me.

A good way for sure to tell if she's cluster b are: If other people say she's crazy. And if she has some weird traumatic past. A girl i dated had those two traits. Most ****ed in the head girl I've ever met. Like you I just let her be mean and i stayed neutral when I was trying to get rid...

Yes. But the problem was no one was dancing in this party, so i couldnt ask them to dance. So I thought a good idea was to get them alone outside away from their friends, then get her to make out with me. Going for a ciggarette being the excuse. I was disappointed I didn't get success. And I do...

Following my previous thread, I have made this thread to share my recent experiences in going out at night and trying to improve my game. To summarise my previous thread I aim to gain more confidence, get the dating game all figured out, and end my frustrations. My main assets are my looks and...

I am starting to just get back into going to bars/clubs and parties. I go there to work on approaching and improving my confidence, and play the numbers game as you said. I recently went out and had a fair few approaches. I plan to share my experience with the community very soon.

Thanks for the feedback. I am doing quite a lot of self reflection at the moment. I'm trying to find that particular moment in my past where I experienced something bad which made me lose my confidence, particularly with women. I'm sure it's multiple things, and I plan to rationalize them, and...

I've got similar goals as you. I find it hard to gain strength, but funnily enough I have no problems getting bigger. I recently increased my squat by 55lbs in a span of 6 weeks. I used the alphadestiny novice program. I think the principle is to train the movement 3 or more times a week, 4-6...

Glad to know others benefit from my post. My parents also kept me sheltered a fair deal. As a result I value being independent more than the average person. Guys who moved out on their own at a young age tend to develop their confidence and independence early, and become better with women as...

I like that idea. I want to do that, as well as go other places more often. I could also just sit in a coffee shop and do some reading as well. It's definitely something that I will experiment with. I'm tired of going straight home from work, not letting people see me. Feeling like I'm not...

I'd say my body is like a middleweight boxer. Perhaps I am a tad less lean and have a bit more muscle. I'm not sure about my exact percentage. But I know that my abs and obliques are only slightly showing. They'll show a bit more if I flex. I need to diet a bit to get a full six pack.

I find it fullfilling to reach high levels in my career, like a project manager someday. I like weightlifting, combat sports, playing pool, and playing music. I'm already working on my career, but I'm not really doing the hobbies I stated anymore. The exception may be weightlifting, but I do...

I have been feeling like this recently. I realised that I was not getting the love life I desired from women. Which is to have fun with the loose types, and date seriously a good girl type if I find them. What makes it frustrating is that I know I'm a good looking guy. I've had women tell me...

I have property. I Inherited it. I believe that you can move anywhere you want if you have rented properties, the way to do it is to have a property manager. But I have no experience of doing this. Anyone have any experience with property managers? Is using one any good?

If you're a good liar/actor I'd do it. I convinced this girl I was dating that I was massively successful with women in the past just by acting like I was the shiit.

This absolutely pisses me off about modern women. They're all pretty much sloots. No wonder they get offended by the word, because most of them are sloots. In my mind there's no such thing as real love with this type of girl no matter what she says. I just can't respect a woman like that. As...

Your story is inspiring. It motivates me, thanks a lot. I never knew of anyone who survived stage 4 cancer. My father had it in his liver, and barely had any chance of diagnosing it sooner, or lasting much longer after that. I wouldn't wish upon anyone what he went through. But the fact that...