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    Perfect illustration of "Men are from Mars, Women from Venus"

    Remember the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" about the difference between men & women? Here's a prime example offered by an English professor at the University of Phoenix: The English professor gave his class this exercise: "Today we will experiment with a new form called the...
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    "Stay Single"

    Were a young man to ask me, "To marry perchance, or remain forever single?" I would, given the hostile circumstances today of law and love, urge caution. "Marriage is a commitment of several years of your life, plus child support," I would say. "Do not make it rashly." The...
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    First Date Flower?

    NO! Your buddies are AFC's. NO flower. NO gift, no anything special, except the honor of having you in her presence and company. If she proves herself to you for 3-4 months of dating, no red flags, hugs, kisses and documentable evidence that she thinks you're HOT, then, after a few months...
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    Over 30 DJ's

    I am an 'older' DJ and find that the field of sane (very important disclaimer) women diminishes rapidly with each passing year. It gets exponentially more difficult to find a sane woman without baggage, hangups, emotional problems, bratty kids or other weirdness. Also, as you get out in the...
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    THIS REALLY WORKS

    Guys, THIS WORKS and it’s FREE. The human mind and your personality CAN change and it’s been proven that if you do something new for 21 days the new pattern will be ingrained. The power of positive AFFIRMATIONS has also been proven. Do this: Get a small tape recorder and a 90-minute tape...
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    my first #

    Call her just for practice. Call her to make a date, hone your skills. Why not? Call her next week, on a weeknight and suggest something fun that only takes an hour or two. A simple, fun, action date. Do it! Go into it with the attitude that this is temporary, you're doing a scientific...
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    Verbal Combat : How to handle hurtful remarks given by others to bring us down?

    "I refuse to do mental combat with someone who is unarmed" Whenever someone even looks like he or she is about to jump in my sh*t, I just mentally switch off and stop listening. I sometimes just look them in the eye and either say nothing or "You might be right" or some other useless fluff...
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    The Fortunate Ones

    Agreed about the "Confusion, uncertainty, disarray, doubt", but you'll notice that even the so-called "Masters" occasionally post feelings of malaise over their OWN perplexing dating scenario or confusing girl du-jour. It can appear as the blind leading the blind. What is the difference? How...
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    25 Key Rules For DJs

    A few more of my own: -Only be with women who make you feel good about yourself. -Let others make sense of crazy behavior. If she confuses you in the least, NEXT. -You have permission to say "NO", to change your mind or to express what you want out of life. In fact, a girl should hear NO...
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    Reply for "Will you buy me a drink?"

    Reply: "What's your home phone number?"
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    Sharing 25 years of dating wisdom...

    HEY! @#$^#$^ have you been reading my mail???
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    "Professional Dater": a definition

    Dude, did we date the same girl? Two years ago in my deeply AFC days, I dated a chick just like this who turned to have a serious personality disorder. She was very weird from the beginning which I kept rationalizing to myself as her being shy, interestingly unpredictable, etc., etc. I ended...
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    "Professional Dater": a definition

    She probably doesn't know that I've dumped her, nor does she probably care, but I found a definition that AMAZINGLY fits her: Women who go out on dates with men whom they have absolutely no romantic interest in or physical attraction to. These women have no intention of exploring the...
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    "I have a boyfriend"

    When she says "I already have a boyfriend", I usually smile and say "So? I'm not jealous..." This usually elicits a smile and on a couple of occasions she has said "But he is..." which on one occasion I said "Too bad. When you're ready for a real man let me know." I still never got a date...
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    1st approach to a women, since finding this board!!

    PERFECT! I bow before you, O mighty Seminole warrior! It's now probably hard to walk around your newly expanded balls!
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    1st approach to a women, since finding this board!!

    PERFECT! I bow before you, O mighty Seminole warrior! It's now probably hard to walk around your newly expanded balls!
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    How to ask a girl to be your girlfriend?

    Hee hee! You guys crack me up! Seriously, 'just-in', to answer your question: YOU DON'T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Either she asks you, or it is a tacit agreement. Period. The only time you specifically 'ask' a girl anything is when you 'ask' her to marry you. Other than that, you endeavor to give...
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    Next Level

    Yo Dom, well thought out and written. Now I see what you were getting at with your question. You're right, men usually think, women usually feel. Women usually are more in touch with their emotions than are men, and women rely more on their intuition then do men. Agreed. And this is a...
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    Next Level

    1) Low self-confidence or self-esteem evidenced by low eye contact, not asking for the number up front, a slight tremor in the voice or flicker in the eyes. 2) Girls or anyone else paying attention for that matter, can pick up on the slightest voice tremor, stammer, eye flicker, nervousness...
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    Is She Too Good For Me?

    If you have to ask, the answer is "yes."
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