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yeah it's hard. you have little to no time to build rapport. as such, unless you are very attractive to the woman, she will not see you as any different than any other guy. you have to find some way to pique her interest...and call soon afterwards so she has you fresh in her mind...

i dont think ive been calling her too much...ive only called her 3 times over a 3 week period. she called me back two times and initiated once (the latest where she wanted to see if i was still up for going out). but i will take your advice as to making her work into MY schedule. more...

the general rule is that if she doesnt counter-offer, and she easily could have, then her IL is way low. but, some girls are weird. don't next her just yet. give her another chance...tell her to come somewhere with you again, just like you did before. after that if she decline with...

UNBELIEVABLE! so, she left me a message last friday saying that she'd call me over the weekend. she never did, and our class was cancelled last week, so i havent talked to her at all for over a week. i nexted her. so, out of the clear blue, she calls me tonight and leaves a messege saying...

UNBELIEVABLE! so, she left me a message last friday saying that she'd call me over the weekend. she never did, and our class was cancelled last week, so i havent talked to her at all for over a week. i nexted her. so, out of the clear blue, she calls me tonight and leaves a messege saying...

one of my afc friends had a knockout gf. she was hot and she knew it. unfortunately, she didn't know that she was also very dumb. she tried to honestly convince me that smoking pot makes you a better, safer driver....nuff said. i have yet to find a girl that is extremely attractive and...

drmeathead is spot on.

here's the thing: if the girls are into you as much as you are claiming, then you are golden. there isn't much you can do wrong to screw it up. if they're attracted to you, they will enjoy whatever you do. so, just keep being yourself, keep them on their toes and have a good, fun time...

i have an extremely high metabolism and can't gain weight at all. that is one factor. another is the simple fact that my sweat glands were being over-stimulated. tension had nothing to do with it, although situational tension can excacerbate the problem. i could be just sitting in my room...

LAST UPDATE...probably well, she never called...this is an easy one: NEXT!!! and i'll see her tomorrow too... o well, im not gonna mention anything, just be unphased....we'll see if she says anything...doubtful... the only thing that bugs me, and it's not about this girl inparticular, is...

here's what you do: you said something about seeing her at a party later this week or something... greet her at the door. she'll be looking at you most likely because u'll be face to face in the doorway. tell her "i can't wait any longer." at that point you can either go in and kiss her...

all right, duke... let me just say that you're not alone... over the last couple weeks i have experienced the same thing. i have known this girl for almost a year. we've been classmates, one class each semester. now, i never thought i would want to ask her out. but recently the kino...

UPDATE...? you are correct, she never did counter-offer. she's nothing but confusing it seems. she did wind up calling me (or texting as the case may be) back from the previous messege i left her yesterday. she said she forgot to call me earlier today. she said she has to work all...

UPDATE: all right... so i called her up today again. i went against PRL's advice and left a message (quick/light-hearted/ no-stuttering :) ) ...although she hasnt called back yet... anyway, my thinking was this: she called back before when i left a message, so she has no qualms about...

why not call her? i won't see her for 1 full week...

UPDATE-- here's the latest: we have a class together today which is pretty long and we're together, talking and what not, for the whole time. we've got some real solid EC, subtle kino and, most importantly, i have her laughing a lot. the C&F was working great. i take her out into the...

she called back from work, and said she had to work until 11 tonight. so, it was a no-go...she works a lot. when i see her next week i guess i'll say something like "when are you free this week so we can go out and do something?" any suggestions?

UPDATE, kind of... i just called her. she didnt answer. i left a short message (that was pretty good i believe)...i went back to someting we were talking about before to make sure the rapport was there, then i cut right to the juice. i told her "im going to xxx at around 7 tonight and would...

thanks for the reply.... anyone else??

Here's the situation: i've been friends, well more like classmates, with this girl for the last couple semesters. recently we have started to get a bit flirty with each other and im taking an interest in her where i wasnt interested before. im starting to see how well our personalities jive...