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Same reason as you, maybe. A normal life is boring. And I dream of escaping this normal world for a magical one. Like they tell in the old fables like "Rutgers is full of sluts. It's sluttier than a normal school. Go to Rutgers and see the difference." That's the aim, here. To go where things...

But I'm wondering if there's a strong hookup culture where you work, or if you just make things like that happen. Yeah, but I'm not looking to heat up dinner, I want the dinner hot when I get there.

I've never heard of that happening anywhere to anyone. It might've happened to one of my classmates, but this seems even out of the blue for my school. Oh, that's a little different. That's effort on your part. You had to escalate your relationship to "jizz on my face" levels. I don't know if...

So your only effort was saying "You could try Clearasil?" No tricks of the seduction trade? You didn't cultivate anything earlier on, didn't build anything up, nothing?

Hmmm, that's not quite the culture I'm going for. Because who's to say you didn't just cultivate your own sluts? Maybe you could've done that anywhere. But I'm looking for an environment that is sluttier than usual. Where I don't have to bring the sluttiness out of anybody. The obsession is...

So you did nothing, nothing at all, and they just rocked up to you like "Jizz on my face?"

Did you have to work at this, or were they talking about this uninitiated? And to other men? That's spicy and all, but women should be pursuing this from the get-go, and openly.

I don't think that's a good idea either, but for a different reason: What is the criteria they're basing these lists off of? Am I really gonna show up to Arizona State and find people having orgies in the dorms? Or is it gonna be a lot like every other college? People quietly studying in the...

I know what my experience in the workplace has been. What I'm asking is, with all of our experiences combined, maybe someone knows of a workplace with a hookup culture?

I don't need the boss to encourage it, like how I don't need teachers to encourage students to hook up. I just need the staff to be as obsessed with sex as students are.

Don't mind, but that's not the same as a slutty culture pervading the workplace. They should be constantly talking about sex, forcing the issue even.

I'm not looking to score with the customers, I'm looking to score with the insiders. But are you sure the hooker-uppers are even in your city? I've also questioned if I'm "locationally challenged" and I feel like certain areas are more conducive to this kind of thing than others. For...

Where are the right restaurants? How do you find them? I would go back to working for tips if I was at the right restaurant.

You mean like cooks? The only thing I know about the restaurant industry is my job as a waiter. None of the staff, back or front of the house, seemed very hookuppy. No one was, like, flirting with the head chef or anything.

I mean "goals" as in "what should I want out of life? Particularly in the vein of sex with women?" I consider myself fit and living comfortably. Everyone lifts and supplements nowadays, including me.

You'll have your suspicions, and I understand. But I mean what I say. The only cure for my boredom is to find some people living in an entirely different world of pleasure and privilege than mine, and somehow join that world.

It's boring if I do it the ordinary way.

Maybe it could be an unspoken encouragement. The bosses don't need to care about my hooking up, the employees do. Same as how teachers don't really care about students hooking up, but students do. But I guess what you're saying here is "That's practically non-existent as well. As you already...

Okay, so I picked the wrong restaurant to work for because mine had no hookup culture. So how do I find the right restaurant, does anyone know? I think you may not be understanding what I'm looking for. I'm not looking for a place where it's possible to hookup with your co-workers, I'm looking...

Is being a waiter close enough to a McJob? Because there was no hookup culture at my job when I was a waiter. Waiters might've been hooking up with customers, but that's not what I'm looking for. It has to be a culture at work. As in, with the employees.