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    Acknowledging your GF has the upper hand.

    I don't know what human interactions or what type of girls you have dated but what I mean is that while dating during the first several dates I made it clear what I expected and she was the one who was way more focused on the exclusivity talk then me because like I said, she met me when I was...
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    Acknowledging your GF has the upper hand.

    I really think many of you have taken an extreme interpretation of what I have been saying. I was honest in saying that past couple of weeks I displayed AFC actions by getting over protective and emotional but I DID set boundaries in the initial months of dating. My whole point is that after 9...
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    Acknowledging your GF has the upper hand.

    Do you think if I don't officially break up with her, still hang out with her now again but live a fuller life outside of the relationship then that'll send the message I want? I mean, I don't want to do that to send a message I actually just want to get back to who I am and who I was being a...
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    Acknowledging your GF has the upper hand.

    That is true. That is true.
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    Acknowledging your GF has the upper hand.

    She's not a ho3 to make things clear, and I'm not saying that because of oneitis or any other reason besides that it's a fact. Does she display BS feminist traits of 'I am independent and you are not the authority of me'? Yes, she does. That's where I'm struggling. I have dated big feminists...
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    Acknowledging your GF has the upper hand.

    I am in a situation right now where the power dynamics have shifter in my relationship. For several months, I called the shots, she was the one always wanting to see/speak to me, she went appreciated the slightest forms of affection I gave her. Now, I can see that she cares less, can wait until...
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    would you NEXT your LTR girl for this?

    Thank you all. What I will do is the following: I will not contact her until she contacts me with something substantial. So no flimsy sms or Facebook emoticon. Something which speaks volume/effort. I will stop scolding. I am glad you all said that because I am looking back and I was doing...
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    would you NEXT your LTR girl for this?

    About a week ago she got up in my face screaming while in an argument. I told her do not speak with me like that and she said she'll speak however she wants. I no contacted her then 3 days later she messaged me asking to talk. We spoke and sorted things out - I warned her not to speak to me...
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    2 years later, my test has arrived. Advice appreciated.

    So how do we keep a relationship then? Being a beta makes them lose interest, being an alpha makes them leave, being a friend puts us in the friends zone... I know that many women are not worth the time but I am a man who wants to get married and have a family. There are certain concessions...
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    2 years later, my test has arrived. Advice appreciated.

    I think my roadblock is here that I have NEVER been with a girl who hasn't shown instability and lack of control at some point in the relationship. I do know however that once they really felt comfortable in doing that, they displayed that kind of behaviour more frequently. Do you guys think...
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    2 years later, my test has arrived. Advice appreciated.

    The truth is for the first year of DJing I did exactly what you mentioned, behaved and basically lived like I could have any woman. I was getting numbers, dates and sleep overs regularly and these women were shallow and not worth thinking twice about. But there comes a time, for my values...
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    2 years later, my test has arrived. Advice appreciated.

    Do women like that exist? I have found that the only women who were never really rude to me were girls I was just thumping and dumping but any relationship I've been in, girls have cried, yelled and then said sorry. I think it's how often they do it and why they do it that's key.
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    2 years later, my test has arrived. Advice appreciated.

    I too believe that some here are too quick to suggest nexting, sometimes I wonder if they actually live by their advice. I have had girls that I've not given two hoots about and sure, I nexted them even for little to no reason just because I couldn't be bothered talking to them or wanted to...
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    2 years later, my test has arrived. Advice appreciated.

    I have been roaming around SS for a couple of years now and I like to think that I have developed leaps and bounds thanks to some of the great info found here. I was in a messy relationship 2 years ago and got dumped. I quickly saw why and how I got nexted so easily by that woman. I have now...
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    Partner keeps getting hit on - reaction

    Hey all. Simple issue but now don't know how to maintain my cool. My partner is attractive and besides everything else, she's overall a much better person then many that came before her. First few months of dating and hearing of her getting cold approached didn't bother me but now it's starting...
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    HB9 wants it or not?

    I dated two girls I worked with last year - one turned out to be a psychotic lost case and the other moved overseas after she svcked me dry, first one by the way I had fired haha. So yeah, that's why I am hesitant because I know the risks associated. I am always really confident with closing...
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    HB9 wants it or not?

    Please don't get stuck on me 9ing her - it's only an online tool to let you all know that she's sexy, it'd be like when a girl walks by and I say to my mate she's hot as fcuk. I am not being oneitis as well... I am a 'man' in the work place anyway and in the meetings we've been at she's seen...
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    HB9 wants it or not?

    That's the thing - there are a couple of quite feminist upper management managers and I care more about my work then getting this chick in bed but at the same time, I want to enjoy these opportunities when they arise. I think when there's a lot of kino going on that's when it'll be time to...
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    HB9 wants it or not?

    I have been working with a HB9 on a project for work however she works for a different organisation. Have had about 4 meetings with her this month and after the 3rd meeting she left a voicemail on my work phone giving me her private mobile number and said "you can call me during and outside of...
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