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lmao I suppose there’s still got to be something sexually attractive about the guy because if adrenaline did have such a powerful effect on inducing arousal, then women would enjoy being stalked by ugly dudes.

IDK what posting rules are in here, so I’ll just leave small excerpt and link for anyone interested. “To the psychologists, the study said something intriguing about sexual attraction: It can transpire from arousal in the form of fear. "The results of these studies," they wrote in 1974, "would...

It’s a pity relationships cant just be straight forward... shouldn’t have to resort to keeping a woman on her toes and so forth, but it seems many women want to experience a whole range of emotions, including anxiety / excitement... likely the reason they love horror movies, and bad boys because...

And the irony is, once she senses he doesn’t really give a sh1t anymore, she’ll start going into extreme chase mode to lure him back into an exclusive arrangement. The beauty of this is, OP doesn’t have to do or say anything other than pull back somewhat.

You tell her you have you’re own business. When she asks what, you tell her you’re a CEO within fast food industry. Then, when time is right (a few months in) introduce her to your hotdog stand.

Oh and to p1ss her off worse, tell her you and Mei Ling are about to watch Fifty Shades of Grey, and you’ll get back to her only when she has calmed down... preferably tomorrow :p

It would be better if he had Mei Ling, that way, he wouldn’t even need to raise the issue, instead it would be her. Her: ‘Who the fvck is that ***** watching movies with you? Are you fvccking her!!! You dirty, cheating pig! All men are the same. It’s overrr! OP: ‘But darling, you have a close...

Yep, that’s why I think there’s only two options here - see the situation for what it is, pull rip cord without saying a word, or the Mei Ling option Yes, sometimes some deeply insecure women will get with a very low SMV guy because they’re terrified of being cheated on + being on their own...

Yes, I told you before that I am happy in my own world, and would only sacrifice that single life happiness for a woman who was really worth it. By that I mean a woman who doesn’t come along and try to destroy my happiness and peace of mind. If she doesn’t come along in this lifetime? Not the...

As I mentioned in a previous post, you should consider yourself king of your own world, regardless of what anyone else thinks, or regardless of your genetics. By that, I mean respect and take care of yourself and your own happiness no matter what. And let’s face it, women do have their...

Women have the benefit of vastly enhancing their appearances. If you google celebs without makeup, a conventionally accepted 9 or 10 isn’t all that. In fact, many women look just as sh1tty as the average guy. Us guys have to face the world with what our genetics handed us, so it would be nice if...

Well, just using him as a prime example of a genetically superior male. high T, 6ft5”, good bone structure, physique, etc. I mean, there are probably better examples, but, let’s say someone of that genetic stock was introduced as a platonic guy friend, I doubt many of the 80% would be cool with...

My reply wasn’t intended as any form of mockery, rather I’m just telling it how it is. The majority of guys (myself included) are not genetically superior. If you were, say... someone like a prime Dolph Lundgren, then their BF’s would sure as sh1t be losing their sh1t at you spending lots of...

Sounds like you’re no potential threat (no Chad), that’s why their BFs don’t care if you’re their GFs man servant. You save them the job of carrying her bags, being her chauffeur, butler, emotional tampon, etc. Women don’t make good friends, that’s why platonic friendships are a fallacy...

Judging by her most recent antics, it sounds like you‘re being love bombed, but that’s just typically cyclic. Just as you’re on a high, she’ll likely do something to bring you down again (idealisation to devaluation), then you’ll start feeling anxiety again — wondering if your next dopamine hit...

I know, man - because you’ve never experienced it before. NPDs and BPDs are such experts at mind fvcking, DARPA should employ them within their psychological warfare projects. It does sound like you’re in a bit too deep (emotionally, physically) to pull out right now, but you realise what’s...

Bro, she’s waiting for him to crack over this issue over the male friend, so she can mind fvck him more by turning into victim, and shaming him for being a manipulative control freak, even though it’s her manipulating him. Once he’s been shamed and punished enough, he knows not to bring this...

Ah, man you’re a total simp being played so hard. This is called ‘fractionation’, and typical mind fvck technique of a narcissist. First they subject you to lots of love bombing, then cloak and dagger psychological abuse. Wash, rinse, repeat. As you’ve been experiencing lots of psychological...

Well, look at from this perspective. She is 110% aware that she’s mind fvcking the OP, and has been doing it from the start. A conscientious person wouldn’t be subjecting someone to such emotional torment. I know, that if I was in an r/s, and had a close female friend around me all the time...

This is why I think OP should have taken this route because not only would it cause her to lose her sh1t - begging, crying, etc, he’d be in a position to then calmly tell her that the whole close male friend thing ain’t for him. I can guarantee - while she’s so vulnerable - she’d get rid of them...