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Do people watch porn without fapping? If so I didn’t know that was a thing. Again, like with most things, the poison is in the dose. And there is also a wide range of porn — some is pretty vanilla, some is pretty fvcked up. I think is there such a thing as healthy porn use, and unhealthy or...

Read up on Nofap. It's mostly pseudo broscience Youtuber bullsh!t with little to no scientific evidence supporting its purported benefits. The only study suggesting such was an experiment done in China where there was a significant spike in testosterone levels when going a week without...

OP, this question lacks a lot of context-- this is basically asking "how long should a piece of string be?" Was this a first date? Second, third? Are you already seeing her? Why exactly can't you ghost or tell her off? Is she your boss's daughter, or your actual boss? Is this is a girl you...

Yes, they are. But I’m getting the sense that you’re now low-key trolling and fishing for sympathy, so I’ll leave it at this: The people in this world do not a fvck about your challenges and struggles. Least of all any potential dating prospects— you’re absolutely right, they’re at the finish...

What exactly is the problem with this?

This sheds a lot of light on things. You suffer(ed) from a clinical mental illness. You need to be aware how this affects your worldview. ^^^ and not just high quality women. Women in general. They can smell insecurity and low confidence like a shark can smell a drop of blood from a thousand...

Men are also turning to these forums because they've come into existence -- I don't think that's a shift in attitudes and belief systems about dating. It's a shift in the availability of information and forums where one can state controversial opinions in relative anonymity, without fear of...

Okay, thanks for the insight. You make more sense now. I don't need to point how just how bitter, self-deprecating, and resigned this attitude is, I think it's self-evident. Yes the harsh reality is that as a middle-aged man, you are expected to have achieved some status in life -- usually by...

I'm glad I am. But it's not just balance to make these threads less depressing, it's also highlighting the fact that this type of toxic black pill nihilism is a mindset more than a reality. Really hot girls are going to prefer dating "Chad" and that's not a fact that has changed in the 30,000...

I can grow a beard on my chin and mustache only. The beard on my chin is a little patchy. I still have baby cheeks which leads nearly everyone to believe I'm still in my 20's. At 36, I'm 50% just owning the baby face, 50% really wanting a beard. Pre-pandemic I was clean-shaven each morning for...

Not necessarily. "Old-fashioned" is also a term used to describe something that evokes nostalgia, and is often a euphemism its user employs to describe something that is proper or is done properly. It's also a borderline cliche for a good-looking guy to be also be an incel because he has zero game.

Lol which women? All women? Or just the top 10% selfie hoes you're concerned about? Given that good income affords men social status and power, yes, females still prefer men with high social status and power, even if they no longer depend on it for physical survival. You might as well start...

There's something very nihilistic about this thread, and your overall point -- that unless you're naturally very physically attractive, attracting women is a pointless, zero-sum game. That because Corey Wayne isn't an extremely good-looking, chisel-faced model, he has no business giving advice...

Cable machines are totally fine, as are plate machines where the rep movement occurs along a defined track. I pretty much just do maintenance lifting with the big upper body compounds -- lat pulldown, seated row, and some form of chest press. All can be done effectively on cable machines or a...

Lying about yourself is a bad way to go. This isn't fudging your height an inch or two because your 6 ft wearing your work shoes in the morning. You straight up LIED about something that's pretty pertinent about who you are in society. And not by a little. I would tell her the truth. If she...

Date? Most likely not. Girls (note use of the term "girl" not "woman") that age are very preoccupied with status and appearances. It's one of the reasons why college girls will often bang the beer-gutted pre-selected members of their tribe over the handsome stranger. Hence, at 29/30 you're not...

True. Driving any significant distance for the sole purpose of seeing a woman -- that you're trying to bang-- can be seen as over-pursuit. Obviously in certain locales or regions of the country it can't be avoided, and is necessary to get out and go on dates. But it does have cues of neediness...

Alpha Male Strategies on Youtube. Features a large, physically imposing black man from the inner city laying down the law on wahmun. Never, ever, show a wahmun emotion. Never, ever, validate a wahmun. Never, ever, tell a wahmun you love her. They just out to exploit you and take your money. As...

Generally speaking, women who will make good wives want to take her husband's last name and will happily accept his benevolent leadership -- as long as it's benevolent and he is doing his part to nurture the bond and meet her needs. Refusing to take her husband's surname, insisting on a...

Yes, it's always best to take the middle road. The old school of thought was that you could be a middle-aged weirdo wearing fishnet tanktops and mascara, and pick up supermodels with your behavior (by following a step-by-step forumula). We now know most of that was bulls!t back then, and...