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A happy marriage can exist without serving the express purpose of providing an environment for children. Your friends, and a wife, do not fill the same role in your life. Especially once you're past 30. Older men without wives report higher levels of depression and isolation, poorer overall...

It can also provide a secure emotional base for a man, through support and companionship, that adds value to his life aside from simply bearing offspring. When, of course, you marry the right woman. A 20-something "unicorn" won't add much value to 40-something man's life once she realizes...

I think what repulses them about PUA's is, primarily, that PUA's tend to be raging misogynists in addition to being sleazy, weird, and often pretty creepy. There's an interesting theory that women fundamentally dislike PUA stuff, because it allows weaker, lower-status men to masquerade as...

Come on man. Do you really believe this sh!t? Do you really believe a woman's only value to society is to provide a wet hole and gestate?

I think this is the key. But, you will need to be relocating to that foreign country in pursuit of your life's goals, with meeting and marrying a local girl being a byproduct of that -- a romantic happenstance. Relocating to Asia to bang Asian women and hoping to tie one down is just as...

I think we are too. A man with attractive frame around his woman is going to make sure she is happy, because he enjoys pleasing his woman. He doesn't do it to make her happy, but really to make him happy. In the context of the first date that I described, the man already made plans to meet...

You're right, "frame" can simple be looked up in a dictionary. But that's not why the OP is asking what "frame" means. "Frame" within the context of pickup, within the context of life pursuit, within the context of work or professional endeavors, aren't all exactly the same -- but they fall...

Of course I'm only really able to list the symptomatic expressions of behavior from a solid alpha frame. I can't get into the core of what "frame" is or how to hold it, I could write a book about it. A lot of dating advice necessarily advocates the mimicking of strong, alpha behavior ie "fake...

I avoid beer on dates or when going out to meet women, because hops is a powerful phytoestrogen and will tank your testosterone -- even in the short term. On dates, I usually stick with vodka-seltzers or red wine, if the venue calls for it. Sure, alcohol is okay in moderation on dates -- it's...

"Frame" is a term that's usually used in PUA/seduction lingo to mean your dominance over a woman, but it also means the framework of your persona, your perspective, your attitudes, your purpose, your goals, your lifestyle, your life as a whole. "Holding frame" is a term used to mean retaining...

Chick is pretty swole.

The key distinction here is between white men who meet Asian women during their travels, or work, or life situation in Asia, and white men who go to Asia in order to find a woman who they deem to be easier pickings than white women. One can be potentially romantic and the basis for a real...

The biological mechanics of sexual reproduction mean that women, as a result of sex, can be left in a desperate survival situation that places her in the direct mercy of her male mate. Who may, or may not, stick around when she's in a physically weakened and wounded state, and caring for an...

Maybe, but the reality is that when you go to Asia because you can't find a girl in your own country, marry a cute Filipina girl or whatever looking for a way out of poverty and/or who views a white westerner as a hypergamous level up, and bring her home, think about the girl you just brought...

Honest question out of pure curiosity: why are you on this forum?

That's the thing with the nice Brooklyn areas -- they're only a block away from the sh!tty areas. Once you cross Court St into Downtown Brooklyn, you'll start seeing the riff raff. But agreed, BK Heights proper (Montague St, the Promenade etc) is a very nice area. Very, very wealthy too. Those...

No, men who hate women for rejecting them are generally not successful with women.

I think this is the only fact pattern that's relevant. She's stuck with you for 7 years -- that's a LONG time. Clearly, that status quo of your relationship is functional. I would keep it that way. Telling you she wants to move on/out sounds like protest behavior, because you're not giving...

You think Asian women are "higher quality" -- why exactly? Because they grew up in a grass thatched hut in the jungle, so they're not "corrupted" by western dating culture? Haha you don't think they have internet connections and online dating apps too? Asian women specifically looking for a...

I’m not sure what someone has to do to “come off as an alpha male.” Does he need to be a 6’5 300 lb black dude from the hood? Other than his height and voice, and his advice that "let me know if you change your mind" comes from a place of detachment, how does CW come off as a beta male? Does CW...