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I'm pretty sure this is the thread you were talking about (when you said there's a thread relevant to the topic of dating/sex marketplace changes as the Millennials age) I must say I'm perplexed. On a different thread, you suggested the unsustainable dynamics right now will correct themselves...

...either. Night game is now niched as compared to the era of Peak Mystery and Neil Strauss (late 1990s - mid 2000s). When I first got out of college in 2005, it was the era of the pickup artist. By the time I graduated college in 2005, I had already read David DeAngelo's works. I had some...

...not sitting at home became a big change. In this era, I was still in a bubble dating environment and it was the bubble of a "Hot Girl U" college campus. After I got my first cell phone in college, I thought it was so awesome that I could call women on the telephone while walking on campus...

Thoughts from the old lady: I see in my children (All Gen Z) exactly these trends. My son (a very handsome 22 year old married college graduate and USAF officer) voted conservatively. So did his wife and most of his friends, particularly the young men. My son and daughter-in-law are...

If Philadelphia is the center of the poon hunting universe in that area, find a way to get near the good parts of Philadelphia and commute to work in Wilmington. That's Option 3 from the list above.

...based on this... Most of the women I've been with, despite me living in Wilmington, are not the local scene. A lot came from the Newark college bars, a couple from NJ, a couple from the PA West Chester area. Wilmington itself has only 1 "good" bar and I'm not a fan of it because they're the...

...secretaries than their bosses, and evolution may be to blame." A new study by psychology researchers at the University of Michigan, using college undergraduates, suggests that men going for long-term relationships would rather marry women in subordinate jobs than women who are supervisors...

My dad playing college football (and then working his way into lucrative jobs) would certainly suggest good genes. Then there's me. Autist, not football material at all, has yet to make even 40k per year (despite the fact I've been out of college for over a decade). In all seriousness, it's...

I have hooked up with two women from Delaware. I did it during college. Delaware (and I am not trying to be disparaging) is not a high quality of life state. It’s pretty, but it’s not flush with economic activity save for a couple of very limited pockets of corporate neighborhoods, mostly...

I don't know how you got bad genes or why you think your genes are so bad. Your dad played college football. Playing college football is often associated with being a Chad.

...can't ban you from having sex like a parent or parents can. In a roommate situation, you are typically not sharing a bedroom. The only exception to this is the college dorm room, which is only 1-2 years for most people. I think most people would rather live alone than live with 1-2 roommates.

...or parents as a legal adult. My notch count would be lower if I spent a significant amount of time living with my parental figures after my college graduation at age 22. During ages 18-24, young adults find themselves shuttling between living away from parents and living with parents. If...

Childless women under 40 tend to not want to long term date a man with a vasectomy. Childless women like to keep their options for future child bearing, even if they are on birth control at that moment. A man with a vasectomy might see his longer term options improve with single moms who don't...

...times per year. Just not the traditional way. On that note, my pregnancy phobia has had an impact on getting laid the traditional way. In college, there were 2 separate instances when I opted out of sex after a first date, despite the fact we were both naked in bed. Then in my first year...

...a birth control shot) Condoms put the decision in the hands of the man, I know. I've had condoms break/slip off, however. I had an older college classmate (he was 43 or 44) who mentioned to me once that he got a vasectomy. One time later on, in a setting where others were present, I asked...

I think it's both a social and personal thing nowadays. There is an overall exhaustion from men when it comes of dating or even hunting.

...senior year of high school. As impressive as it would've been, I did not tack on 93 more notches to my body count in the 3 following years at college - most of this happened post-grad. And no, they're not middle-aged coke addicts, but hey, like I said at the beginning; believe what you want...

How do you sustain such motivation? I would be fried!

...You had mentioned in a post of mine a couple years ago (tempus fugit) that you couldn’t understand how a 38 year old single dad was pulling college students at the bar, sober when you were having issues. I would tread super carefully if I was someone on this forum looking for advice. OP...

...in non-bar venues since 2012-2013. Prior to then, I spent my late teens and most of my 20s as a nightlife venue approacher (off campus college parties and then bars once I turned 21). Most 30+ single men deal with this differently than I have. The typical 30+ single man who loses his bar...