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DUDE - this was written in 2015! The post i made last night was a 6 year follow up saying all was well. If you are trying to 'game' your wife you have mental issues.

thank you mate. Definitely interesting to see different types of people in here these days!

Ngmi

read my initial post today re. Men naturally caring less / woman being more needy once they fall in love with you. Once you are happily married there is no ‘wearing the pants’. Usually it is the guy playing up and then making up for bad behaviour, and that’s just the way it is. The fact you are...

Pretty much all I was trying to convey was that you can overthink things when you are at the start of a relationship as long as you keep your cool and don't mess it up. Was reminiscing on an old post and trying to give a little bit of advice. I would imagine that most people who have used this...

What do you mean? At the start you should keep your options open before you seal the deal so you don't become too needy (even if you are feeling it). Over time, once you become more serious/exclusive and she actually loves you, then you just be a good normal guy. I just wanted to come on here...

Definitely try keep your options open at the start so you don't become too needy, basically, but you don't need to be shagging 10 woman at the same time. GL sir

Hello all - it's been years since i've been on this website, but tonight I got very bored and for some reason Sosuave came back into my memory and I logged back in again (obviously I forgot my password and had to reset - duh). Just reading back to these the old posts and this is the most recent...

ha I don't think I would have a problem with that ;) as we are already doing some quite funky things. Problem is that whenever we see each other it can get soo good, like nothing I have ever experienced before (and have had 2 previous 3 yr LTRs) so almost feel like I become addicted to her...

Hi Harry! Thanks very much for your comment. Massively appreciated. You know what, you're completely right. I think I just needed someone to tell me this, and I didnt want to start whining to my girlfriend and becoming needy to her and putting her off me so I guess it's easier to just rant...

Mrgoodstuff- literally every time I see here once or twice...nothing wrong in that department! El Payaso- ha thanks for that. Can't say I've really been using the place steady tbh- and we all need/ think certain ways from time to time so it's good to get some perspective to knock yourself into...

Hi guys, Been a while since I have posted on this but its been a while since i've been in a proper LTR and I need a second opinion. I have been seeing a girl, who to be honest is not far from a 10 in both personality and looks, for 5 months now and she seems to be more independent than me...

I do completely agree. I guess the fact that most girls I know are completely the opposite of her I am a little intimidated...I know I shouldn't be. I have been with hotter, but most girls like to be dominated and I am sure she does do. My intimation probably comes down to an insecurity or...

To be honest, I love her personality, and the fact that she is very confident and talkitive and extremely confident is very attractive to me! Just looking for a few tips on how to handle her!?

Hmmmm....she's certainly not masculine. She is a Hollister model! However, a few of my friends who also work in the Hollister store mentioned that she is one of the loudest people in the shop.lol.

Yea, I don't wana neg too much now- but I think that I will ramp them up a tiny bit. Generally I'm fine, when I see her out and I'm texting, phone game..its just when we get into a date scenario she starts talking and talking and I don't get to dominate like I would like too...

Hey guys, I was wondering how you guys handle very confident, talkitive girls. l I went on a date last night with a girl that I am kind of seeing, but she is like uber, super, crazy confident. To be honest, her confidence stifles me somewhat, as I feel her personality outshines mine. When...

She's not in a my direct social circle- she's in my indirect wider social circle. Knows ppl that I know but if i operated by the rule you state above I would significantly reduce my options of hot girls. Hot chicks hang with hot chicks

Hahaha assault! I would love to take her up for that, though I am sure that my reputation would be soiled for taking a girl up or assault after pouring a drink over me. One of my friends thinks I ask her if she wants a drink the next time i see her and then pour a pint of Guinness over her head...

Yes, to be honest I am very very angry with her and concerned about what she is saying to others. I am not pretending that I am not affected by her 'game', if that's what it is. I know what you are saying in that "if you allow somebody to disrespect you, you disrespect yourself", but how on...