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I've just started seeing a girl of 21 and I'm 31 is that weird ?

So she's just randomly texted me saying ' Why don't you come and see me in work' ?

Take it I should next this one.

Basically in the last few days we were texting ..over the last few days I re-read the messages and this is completely my fault and I'll explain why .. So since the start she's always mentioning relationship as in do I want one etc.. So I kept her at arms length... Went on few really good dates...

I'm tempted to text her but I won't ... We use what's app and if I go on and she's online she leaves straight away haha! Weird how easy they change ... This time last week she was proper interested.

So I'm feeling my lowest at the moment .. Last year I was made redundant and went self employed .. But that isn't working out so I'm now jobless back at my parents and not spinning many plates oh and I'm broke. At the age of 31 I don't things can get any worse. So really need to sort my life out...

So is it best for me not to contact her at all .. Not heard off her since Thursday ( 4 days ) ?

Thanks for all your advice .. This is finished. Not spoke in a few days. Live and learn ha ha

Okay why not? Does it make me look to keen ?

Okay either way she still didn't let me know .. If it was me I would of let her know that I have to work.

Okay so I've been dating this girl 3 dates so far .. All seems to be going okay, we arranged to do something tomorrow the other day .. So this morning I messaged her asking if we're still on for tomorrow ... And she said that she can't now due to starting a new bar shift as manager .. At such a...

Okay so I sorted things out with her and we went on a date today .. Everything was great until we went in my local and bumped into some of my friends .. 1 to which she was flirting with I think ... Things went awkward then he dissapeard and then things were good again ... I will admit I felt...

No she initiated contact with me

She's just messaged me saying 'hey you okay?

Because I met her on the Friday and all this happened buy the following Tuesday ... So only 4 days and I was .. I tried to meet her for lunch but was both busy .... It probably is my fault .. Just didn't want to dive in head first so to speak. Never mind.

Okay met this girl in my local pub .... We start chatting I get her number etc ... A few days later we go on a date .. Everything went really well like too well, and that same night afterwords she was messaging me saying what a great time we had and that she didn't feel awkward and that we just...

Hey LVD, okay I suppose had 1 or 2 hiccups but nothing major ... Still going gym. It's funny how you mentioned the dad predicament... Not heard off him directly but I'm conveying messages to his brother but it's still early stages tho. On another note I went on a date with a girl last Sunday...

Let's say something along the lines of this:- Hey xxxx, I'm free next weekend we should do something? Let's say she replies:- okay ... like what? Me:- that depends on what type of girl you are ;) ? And so on ...

okay so I met this girl on a tinder like app called happn or something .. Which picks up local girls that you've crossed paths with ... Anyways we chatted last night and I ended up getting her number. I said I'd text her today once I was free and am just about too do so but don't want to send...

Thanks for that I didn't think of it like that. But what I do know I'd that she does no about me as my mother bumped into her a while back at the supermarket and she was asking how I was etc... But I'm not sure this is the right women .. All I've got to go off is that she has the same first name...