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    Convos on OLD just fizzle out

    I've actually been getting a lot of matches on OLD lately, but it seem like either the chat never goes anywhere or they're from the next state over which means a 2 hr. drive if we meet halfway, and since I'm in NE there's basically nothing in between. Honestly my interest level hasn't been...
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    How would losing sexual function affect your game?

    Yeah I don't doubt that at all. I think the knee jerk response that there would be nothing to live for at that point is a little extreme, but I can see how it would mess with someone.
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    How would losing sexual function affect your game?

    I don't know. Last time I had trouble staying hard I went down on her and gave her the best oral she's ever had. At least according to her
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    How would losing sexual function affect your game?

    Sex is great, and I've said this before, but I really enjoy the companionship of being with a woman, as well. Are you saying this could not exist without the sex or that it's somehow only imagined due to the conditioning we've undergone throughout our lives?
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    How would losing sexual function affect your game?

    I was thinking more along the lines of complete loss of sexual function. But it's interesting you mentioned jelquing because I had read it can actually cause you to lose some feeling. I haven't tried it personally but recently I've found it takes me forever to get off even though I'm hard and...
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    How would losing sexual function affect your game?

    I'm at what I'd consider nearing my prime even though I'm 43 years old. I'm very close to being in better shape than I was at 25, have tons of energy and feel my SMV is at an all-time high. I feel like I have a lot going for me now but I sometimes wonder what I would do if god forbid something...
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    When a girl suggests a change of plans

    She had asked if I wanted to go to the park sometime. I like playing tennis and it's something active so I suggested it. There's already a good rapport between us so I feel like I don't have to take such deliberate steps to ensure I can make moves. It just happens
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    When a girl suggests a change of plans

    I invited her out yesterday because I was looking for something to do and she keeps saying she wants to hang out more, though I've been kind of keeping it more sporadic. I said we can go bowling or shoot a game of pool and I would pick her up. Then a buddy texted and said his friend's band...
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    When a girl suggests a change of plans

    We planned on doing both but there were a lot of ppl there and she said she was self conscious about her boobs bouncing around so we hiked the trail, sat in the car and talked, made out, drove to another park and made out some more. Honestly it's a tough one because we already almost had sex...
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    How to tell a girl you don't want to be exclusive

    Yup, working on that one. I'm going out of town next weekend and she offered to go along but I didnt say anything. She said... unless you're going to pick up a woman. Then said... that's cool but she better be hotter than me. Lol
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    When a girl suggests a change of plans

    True. But I was looking forward to using the line 'I think it's really sexy when a girl works up a sweat' as a way to encourage her to be more active lol
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    How to tell a girl you don't want to be exclusive

    Well ****. 1. I actually have planned our dates 3 or 4 days in advance. 2. I haven't, but she has 3. I've mentioned my family a couple times. And told her that I've been separated from my wife for 8 months but that we're still good friends 4. I almost had her come out to a bar I hang out at...
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    Should plates initiate? How often should you contact plates?

    Damn, I've already broken that rule then. I saw her on Friday, Sunday and we have plans again today lol
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    When a girl suggests a change of plans

    We were supposed to play tennis at the park today. So she texts me 'do you still want to meet up for tennis or hike the trail behind the park?'. I don't really care honestly. How to handle this?
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    Should plates initiate? How often should you contact plates?

    I'm new to this too but I'll share a little. This girl seems to really be into me and sends me long texts throughout the day. I haven't initiated the texting but will give a short response now and then, always making her wait awhile. Because of the fact that her interest level seems high I've...
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    How to tell a girl you don't want to be exclusive

    My last thread talked about this girl I met on fb dating that I am starting to see. I really like her but I think she wants something exclusive. She had said before she doesn't want to share. What is the best way to tell her that I want to see her but want to keep my options open?
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    Maintaining frame when girl has high interest level

    Well... An update I guess... So she texted me earlier and I went out tonight drinking. And texted her back. Anyway, long story short, she invited me to her place, knowing I had been drinking, even though she said she doesn't like being around drunk ppl. We talked for a minute before I kissed...
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    Maintaining frame when girl has high interest level

    Can you elaborate? You mean like 0 value?
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    Maintaining frame when girl has high interest level

    I should add that during our first conversation I told her that I'm separated. She kind of got a scared look until I said it had been 8 months and there's no romantic feelings involved. She said that's cool but she wouldn't want to have a threesome or anything. She also said she wouldn't want...
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    Maintaining frame when girl has high interest level

    I'm trying to remember specifics but she just said a lot of stuff to build herself up to me. Also when I would tease her or challenge her she would kind of go in the defensive rather than be like 'whatever'.
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