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Id appreciate you not commenting on my threads if youre not going to give me anything productive. You answered none of my actual questions. I asked for thoughts on jealousy and IL. Its not that easy as "Stop talking to your ex." I wish it was that easy but theres alot more to the dynamics.

Thoughts on jealousy? Is it a good indicator for IL or is it the whole i want what i cant have scenario. Quick replay of events. My ex and i have been texting she tells me that shes jealous thinks im talking to other girls. I try to flirt with a "youre too cute you know that (:" being a little...

Its not so much patience its just as an NPD i find the game fun. I can get very impatient and feel like punishing her if i perceive a slight on her end. Which at times has had mixed results. Im planning on reengaging because im bored again after two weeks. Plus i see her as a challenge and tbh...

Louis Lane doomed the whole world..selfish b*tch. ha

100% agree. :up: Oneitis is like a kryptonite for getting girls. Superman without his power is useless just as a don juan without his full game. Nuff said.

Solid advice thanks BB. :up: Just to clarify are you saying send it now or wait till i know shes free? Also i was going to go with a subtle variation of i was on vacation and left my phone on the charger due to the timespan as its been a few tries on her end since 2 weeks of NC. Or do you...

Right?! Its seemingly frustrating because im stuck at the point of not getting sex or facetime(which i need to game her) and relegated to bs interactions. So i went NC. Did your ex ever say anything like what mine stated during NC where she announced something along the lines of leaving yet...

For sure. Anything else and you can guarantee that id have dropped her for good. That makes alot of sense. So i need to be more sexual when texting her i supposse. I guess i kinda screwed up there but im learning. Do you think it was a good move going NC after she was trying to pull since she...

Exactly! Thats how my BPDex was. BTW i gave her my virginity(Waited till i was 19) princess_124 and i thought she was "the one". She mirrored me in acting like sex was something important. She tricked me and told me shed only had sex with 5 guys(Lie) and acted like the girl of my dreams. She...

Thanks for the quick reply BB. Ive read alot of your guidance on here and im interested to hear your take. Haha nice man! My other ex BPD did as well and shes app one atm. Although i strongly suspect she was too lazy as well! Well i took a heroic dose of anitbiotics during testing so it came...

As the title says I am a dNPD trying to break free from my BPDex. The problem is the dance is so damn addicting. Most nons dont get that this kinda hard wired in my brain. And due to my parental structure growing up its all i have to go off of.:crazy: Little background on me and my BPDexgf...