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If she's testing me, then she's interested. We got a game here, boys!

Then why did she initiate with me?

Don't knock on the door dude, that's creepy. Let things play out. A little small talk here and there when you see her. You're rushing things, and it's going to signal to this woman that you're desperate and it will turn her off.

Huh? I've been talking to other girls and haven't been paying her any attention, which is probably why she texted me out of the blue asking me what I was doing on the weekend. She told me she might be out and I said "Cool, sounds fun." I'm not going to sweat her and try to force something. She...

So you're saying she's absolutely not interested?

But the thing is, she is the one who texted me and said she might be around on Saturday. I didn't ask her anything.

Well, at some point she's going to think I'm not interested and move on. Where is the line here?

She probably was waiting for me to say "Did you end up going out on Saturday?" Haha, I haven't said anything. Not a word.

Do you think she's interested?

So she's playing games with me, and then I'm supposed to jump in and force other plans and she's just going to agree to that? Some of you guys don't have a clue, I swear. It all sounds good in theory, but most of the minds in this forum are so warped it's not even funny.

WTF are you talking about? She indirectly asked ME. Basically said she might be out, she might not. And she will let me know... which she didn't. How am I the one playing games? lol

Right, but what's the point? She messaged me out of the blue, I didn't hit her up.

Got a couple plates going, then this girl texted me (who I have been pushing to the side), on Tuesday saying she "might be out on Saturday night for a little bit. Not sure, but if I do, I will let you know." I said "Yeah. That'd be fun." Saturday came and went, she never got back to me. I've...

I showed him that post and he said "If you want to scare women off, go ahead and do it."

My buddy and I were having a couple drinks and he was explaining this in more detail to me. He said "Most guys overpursue. They're so worried about whether the woman likes them they make a move before she even has a chance to decide how she feels. They feel pressured, back away and lose...

I showed my friend this thread. He just chuckled and said "I wouldn't be looking to the internet for advice about women."

That's not always the case.

I asked this plate I was spinning last Saturday afternoon if she was in the mood for drinks later. She told me she was busy. Do you think it's always a good idea to give a couple days notice?

I thought this was interesting. I was talking with a buddy of mine today who is very good with women, and he said when you're dating a woman and they want to get physical, they will let you know. I asked him to elaborate. He was like "Making a move on them doesn't turn them on, waiting for...

I've had women who I've known for years that I eventually hooked up with, that would be considered friend zone initially. I've had women tell me they were "busy" with no offer to reschedule, and we ended up hanging out like a month later and banging. I've had female co-workers who were just...