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Haha, you would think.

TLDR: So, I had been dating a girl for a while now, then I entered into long term with her last year. It's smooth now, and has been kind of perfect in all manner. In the start, I used to drink a bit(very very less), but then I stopped because she opposed very vehemently. I don't mind that...

I think I would have to block her. She is messaging on Instagram (i have blocked her on messages), putting stories, and writing phrases like "Was it even real?", "You never loved me right?". I wanted to avoid blocking her but rather wanted her to understand this and let it go. Ig I would have to.

So we didn't meet up. A fight broke out at her house (yes some serious family issues). So I had to end it on a phone call. I explained it to her that I have reached a point where I can't keep on going. I have had my hopes till now, but from now on wards I can't. Also mentioned, instead of me...

I intend to meet her up tomorrow in person; to explain it to her, I can't do this. It has been taking too much of a toll on me, and leaves me with a feeling of unsatisfied and unworthiness.

The last comment mentioned this too. Maybe it's my blind spot, respectfully asking, but what "personal issues" of mine did you notice here?

It's okay. I wouldn't deny the aspect of me holding internal issues, I am open to being pointed out on that. So thanks on that part. If you were on the same position, would you in act in the same manner or different to this?

TLDR: Would you stay committed to a person totally, and kill your physical desires just because the person in front of you is not ready even if that person is honest, loyal and caring to you? I am 20, a virgin, and a girl I am currently with has sexual trauma. A few I know, and a few I don't...

Why is that I am being guilt tripped with the statements like, " I don't see it as right when someone behaves as such, goes away from me and can even leave me when it comes to these topics. This is not love" ?

Hello, I have been staying away from the site and practising everything I learned, and enjoying life in general. This topic still leaves me in confusion, so here is how it is. TLDR: How do you handle politics in respect to women? Do you discuss with them? Do you correct them? What if they are...

That hits hard. Thanks.

Hello everyone! For the context, this was my last post. My life has been really well from the last month or two. My self-work on gym finally paid off, and my life just transformed on it own. I, for first, read this in an old article related on testosterone, but now I just feel so, how do I say...

Any source for such claims ? I can only see rise in girls eating processed food, and sitting on their ass whole day.

I saw a 16 year girl (im 19), and idk what's happening with women anymore. The curves,the size of breast and hips, they don't like under 18 anymore! Men are getting feminine, and women are getting over-feminine (?)

I have started working on that. I have to deprogram my brain to understand that women are not achievements, no, they are not. To every veteran out there, Once I start to notice it, I realize that people actually CONGRATULATE a guy when he gets a girlfriend. But I see no such thingin the girl's...

By the end I was noticing it. Funnily enough, I got to know from one of her school colleague later, that her ex wasn't really toxic at all. But I was told opposite. It's easy to lie for them somehow.

I agree about it being the act of futility.You can't change, even knowing it is an effort which will take a lot of time, just to change what?

Indeed. To any newbie out there, who is reading this: When I used to care less, was't devoted or committed much. She used to tell me, how lucky she is to have me, and is afraid of losing me. Yeah, seems unbelievable but that really happened in the start. Later I started losing the dynamic.

" This is where that cycle of hesitation leads. In your world of Hesitation, you shred off more and more of your manliness until you turn into a full-fledged Nice Guy. Then you seek to remove hesitation by making the approach risk free. Then you start giving gifts, poetry, flowers, and...

How do I get this out for her? They keep playing the victim, portray themselves as good girls, flawless and pure as milk. How do I get it out of her this information, since they will easily change the topic or wittily hide the information?