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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thought about this too... thanks for sharing your view, mate. Anyways, just found it interesting to share somehow, I don't plan to further dwell over it, although in hindsight I got to admit that there is still some unrealistic hope that we get together again and this chat somehow nurtured it. I...
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    Is getting married for betas?

    Not possible to generalize this, if you have a high quality girl and you have a good longterm relationship with her it is not bad to get married and I'd say being "alpha" is an imperative if you want to have a sustainable good relationship with such a woman. There are other cases apparently...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    It's been more than 3 weeks now that I had contact with her the last time, see above, final talk, last time trying to get her back, didn't work out. Today there was some interesting development: I still get letters to our old address, so I texted her, where my letters are. She told me where and...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Hi all, 2nd post, here, I'm Nico (30) from GER, was tired of my GF, made her dump me after 5 years, 3 months later a big crisis hit me, tried to get her back, failed, now I'm doing the challenge, this is day 1. Yesterday, I had my final talk with her, pushed her to say, that it is over forever...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I plan to do the challenge asap but how do manage aspects like 1. we lived together for 4 years and splitting contracts, the things we own, financial things takes forever, i dont want to wait until this is done and its also tearing me apart to do this now. 2. we have 2 cats i love that stay...
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