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    Punishing bad behavior gone too far / done wrong?

    There’s a lot of similarities with one that I was with. I ended it and she mocked me with “you’ll be back, you always come back” Three weeks later she took her own life.
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    Woman at Swimming Pool

    There’s a woman at my local swimming pool that I’ve started some light conversations when in the pool in the last weeks. I guess she’s early forties and she said she has a son. There’s no wedding ring, but that could be not wearing it for swimming. Last week and this week she’s initiating light...
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    We place far far too much emphasis on female physicality and beauty

    Objectification of the female body has been going on since the Stone Age - see Venus of Hohle Fels. A figurine made of mammoth tusk dated in excess of 40,000 years.
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    Article: It’s true: owning a flashy car does make you more attractive

    I wouldn’t trust The Torygraph to tell me that water is wet!
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    Lack of Attraction Towards Menopausal Women

    Dating women around the age of the menopause is going to be around the right age match for a man of my age. However, I don’t find women around this age bracket sexually attractive. The changes to their bodies from the menopause are a turn off for me. I like women with curves such as a small...
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    Married Men on Dating Apps

    I’ve heard directly from women and read about married men being on dating apps. Impossible to know how much this affects the male / female ratio on the apps. Married men going after single women is a pet peeve of mine as the mistress will often seek out another man to fill in the gaps in her...
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    She Refused To Get out of his Car Because He took her To The Cheecake Factory On The 1st Date!

    I loved my late father’s phrase of “she thinks her sh1t don’t stink” for describing entitled women!
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    How Sensitive Are Women To The Crazy Label?

    Generally speaking are women sensitive to being thought of as crazy? If a women picks up on a little something you said and then think that you think they’re crazy - even if you don’t. Has this happened to you? I’m also seeing a lot of OLD profiles where they say they’re “easy going” as if...
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    Returning Flakes

    For context when we got reacquainted at a friends birthday party after several years she began chasing. She took up motorcycling and I helped her in choosing and test riding some 125cc motorcycles. Then an immediate family member of mine passed away after a short illness and it was not the...
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    Returning Flakes

    Yeah, I know. I showed a bit of emotion over txt a week or so later when she didn’t reschedule and then accepted the situation and attempted no further communication. A few months later she started putting snarky WhatsApp status updates seemingly directed at me after I posted holiday pic...
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    Returning Flakes

    Have you guys had a flake that returns months later? If so how have you dealt with them? I had one in a mutual friends group that I had re-established contact with. Long story short, she asked me out to dinner to thank me for something I had done for her. Then flaked and ghosted. 10 months...
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    Glamorising Craziness?

    Just came across this song by Doja Cat. “Walk On By” is an old song that has been covered many times and I find this one quite catchy, but after watching the video it comes across to me that Doja Cat is glamorising craziness in women and making it look cool for a woman to be crazy. Maybe I’m...
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    New job as an apprentice. Any advice?

    In the building trade in the UK apprentices can be the butt of jokes. It usually involves sending them on errands to the builders merchants to buy something along the lines of: Paint with stripes in it Tartan paint A left handed screwdriver A long weight.
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    Greying Hairy Chest - good or bad look?

    Is shaving high maintenance and how often do you shave it? Is it prickly or itchy as it starts to grow back?
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    Greying Hairy Chest - good or bad look?

    I noticed that Trump and some of the men surrounding him look like they have had work done on them. Most notable was Rudy Gulliani and his hair dye running down the side of his sweating face as he was giving a press conference!
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    Greying Hairy Chest - good or bad look?

    That is one of my top 5 most disliked songs As I’m bald / shaven headed I was told a few times in the past that I looked like Right Said Fred. Didn’t know how to take that one!
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    Greying Hairy Chest - good or bad look?

    Desperation is a bit strong. There is a big market for hair & beard dye. I dyed it when it was a small patch pre covid, now it’s larger and when on a beach holiday this year I never bothered dyeing it.
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    Greying Hairy Chest - good or bad look?

    I’m 54 and I have a greying hairy chest. I did dye it with beard dye when going on beach holidays, but the grey / white area is getting larger now and more difficult to cover up. When wearing medium cut T-shirts there is an area of white hair on show. Is this a good or bad look for a guy of my...
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    WhatsApp Status Updates & Facebook Stories

    I eventually stopped looking at these as well due to coming to the same conclusion of attention whxring behaviour.
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    WhatsApp Status Updates & Facebook Stories

    I’ve come across women who seemingly post these updates on WhatsApp or Facebook because they can see who viewed them and use this as a way of seeing who is interested in them. I had one a while back that posted daily WhatsApp status updates and to begin with I stumbled across this feature and...
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