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  1. CaptFinnBad

    Outside perspective needed

    1. She's overwhelmed with problems. Very little I can logistically do to help. 2. Not taking care of her personal needs. She's genuinely been neglecting self love maintenance when absorbed in problems. 3. Hormones amplifying her emotions. She's frustrated with everyone in her life to...
  2. CaptFinnBad

    Outside perspective needed

    So been thinking about this.... Although the situation is due to outside influences. The minor catostraphies that keep hitting her over and over. The situation has potential to spiral in a negative way. I think a lot depends on how I deal with It. 1. Sex is normally balanced,. She...
  3. CaptFinnBad

    Outside perspective needed

    Normally we have sex every time were together. She's had the implant like 6 months now. It's definitely effecting her mood, body and drive though. Not so easy without it and relying on condoms it's very easy to slip up. It's definitely a root worth reconsidering. It would be so easy...
  4. CaptFinnBad

    Outside perspective needed

    Arm implant.
  5. CaptFinnBad

    Outside perspective needed

    Been with my girlfriend for just under a year. It's been on fire since day one. It's been really awesome, although it feels like I'm hitting a first roadblock and it's started to slip in a direction I don't care for lately. 1. Birth control. She switched a few months ago (got an implant)...
  6. CaptFinnBad

    She digs up the past

    Since she changed her birth control it started. Mabye once a month, its usually over some pretty ****. It's not personally aimed at me either, with everyone in general. She definitely doesn't turn into a monster or too extreme. She's very self aware about it, Its something I really...
  7. CaptFinnBad

    She is driving me nuts. Need some advice

    You made it clear in your mind going to the party was unacceptable behaviour for you personally. She went to the party and crossed the line and did something you deemed unneceptable. You changed your boundaries to accommodate someone who broke them. Why? Also what does that teach the...
  8. CaptFinnBad

    She is driving me nuts. Need some advice

    I'm getting some red flags both your end and hers. She's your ex now. Forget about her and focus on you. Try reading "nice guys finish last" amoung other things. Keep a curious mind. Put yourself on a journey to becoming a better man . I think that you have an incredible amount of...
  9. CaptFinnBad

    She is driving me nuts. Need some advice

    Not necessarily. It's possible but there isn't enough information available to make a conclusion. Perhaps he was drawn to cluster b and the problem is why he choose to seek that particular relationship in the first place. She could have always destined to treat any guy she's with like this.
  10. CaptFinnBad

    She is driving me nuts. Need some advice

    I think there is a trap though! Watch out you don't get involved with another nut job just to fill the void your feeling. Could quite easily work out that way! There is a danger you might subconsciously seek out the familiar.
  11. CaptFinnBad

    She is driving me nuts. Need some advice

    I lived this around last time last year. **** knows... Probably not a good idea? I don't know. Do what you want. When I was with my nut job. We broke up, had so many ups and downs, the emotions of a break up seemed like normality (just another day in the life with her). I was able to...
  12. CaptFinnBad

    She is driving me nuts. Need some advice

    Litrerally I was you a year ago. Exactly same situation with the same type of women. I went back and forth a few times. Exact same results. Complete **** show! "That I'm the one causing all those problems to sabotage the relationship" Mate there can be bad women. Your ex is one of them...
  13. CaptFinnBad

    She is driving me nuts. Need some advice

    Good! Hurts like **** brother, but at least now that nut job of your ex isn't in your way **** blocking you from meeting women that will actually value you ! Stay strong.
  14. CaptFinnBad

    She is driving me nuts. Need some advice

    I was in a similar situation in a past relationship. It drove me nuts! I don't know if you are willing to go through with this bit of advice but it's the best I can give. Break up with her. She's not worth this and this relationship is going to eat away at you. It's easier said that done...
  15. CaptFinnBad

    She digs up the past

    In an ideal world, I wouldn't even entertainment it. In a way I enjoy an argument. I think it's something I need to work on. I'm just trying to figure out what lesson I need to learn.
  16. CaptFinnBad

    She digs up the past

    So no major mistakes. The relationship is pretty good. What I'm struggling with (how not to get drawn in by it mainly) is when we argue she gets emotional and starts bringing in past arguments, conflicts, how she felt 5 months ago on a Thursday, whatever. It can be arguing about the most...
  17. CaptFinnBad

    Challenging times

    So long story short... Just moved back into my house. It was a weird situation where I basically did a house swap with my tenent. Last few weeks have been extremely stressful. Massive family issues, arguments, facilitating my own move. Babying my tenent and basically organising there move...
  18. CaptFinnBad

    Can you be successful with women on an average income?

    You can be successful with women even if you're broke and on welfare. I mean successful as in sleep with lots of women and spin plates. Although in a relationship it helps to be earning more or the same as the women you're in a relationship with. Not a deal breaker in my opinion if you...
  19. CaptFinnBad

    Most a women has gone out their way for you?

    I think you're missing a critical part of this. It wasn't just a random dude on a whine. It was a feeling of intensity and desire that made it worth it for them. Every woman has this in them and they will move mountains to feel it.
  20. CaptFinnBad

    End game

    Amen ,
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