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The dreams get me almost every night. Some nights I'm sharing loving moments with her again and I wake up and feel sick with anguish. Other times I have dreams where she's really cold towards me. A lot of the time I'm trying to say goodbye to her and she's totally indifferent. I admit, I cry a...

Did you pay for the classes? I've been meaning to start meditation for some time now and have found some basic (free) instructions on how to do TM. It sounds promising! Please keep us updated on your experiences.

This basically sums up most of our problems! It can really be expanded on as the root of our difficulties in dealing with break ups... Most of us are perfectly capable of rationalizing why we broke up, what we need to do to move on, or even to get her back, and why we are better off out of...

This has been the difficult part for me and where I've been most torn. On one hand, I totally and utterly agree that showing weakness will go against me and I gain more ground by no contact and not giving her any attention. On the other hand, I basically called the break up and I treated her...

You guys are right and I do know it. I might be able to play cool, but I'm still a long way off healing and I'm still overwhelmed with emotions, paranoia and insecurity regarding this relationship. Speaking to her, meeting with her is just going to open the wound even more. I've been spending...

Thank you Machtwo. I appreciate the reply and I know you're right. I was on the right track all along, and now I'm paying the price of slipping. I miss her so much, and knowing she loves me gave me hope, but I can't keep going through this misery and pain and you're right mate, I have to let go...

I've really sunk back to my post breakup depression lately and really struggling to get through the days. Having her contact me, give me hope, reveal her feelings and then withdraw again has totally fvcked with my head and stirred my emotions again. I can't stop thinking about her...and I mean...

This is a very inspiring post and I wish you the best of luck. I have to be honest, this post makes a refreshing and welcome change from all the usual ones and shows that, despite what is too often preached here, it is possible to be happy with a woman and have a healthy and fulfilling...

This was my intention and it's what we did the last time we broke up. We met up, cleared the air and left on good terms. After 2 weeks of not contacting her, she started chasing me and we decided to give it another go. If I'm honest, I've been hoping the same thing will happen again. But the...

This is the part that fvcks with my head. It does feel like it will happen soon. She wanted to meet last week originally, but I was away and couldn't make it, so now she says next weekend. Even though it's not a date and she's rejected the idea of us getting together, I know that if/when we meet...

You're possibly right. I know I rushed things in replying to her and laying it all on the line, and it hasn't exactly scared her off. Perhaps if I played it more slowly and carefully it's not a lost cause. She has suggested meeting up next weekend, so I'll go NC until I hear any more about...

So true! I've learned this the hard way. I got the text I prayed for, with her telling me how much she still loves me, would give anything to be with me again etc, and yet when I reveal that I feel the same, she tells me she doesn't want to get back together...she just wanted to let me know...

I'm with you on this. Instead of flipping out at a woman for standing you up or punching a man because he spilt your drink, go hit the gym and push out some extra reps, or go for a run. The results will serve you much better. Anger is natural, and when chanelled correctly it can be a valuable...

That's what I fear. I sat opposite my last date straining not to cry. When I'm horny, the idea of a fvck buddy sounds awesome and I have a real hottie who is up for that, no strings or complications, but not sure if I'll feel worse after. I guess I am trying to rush myself because I don't...