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Ok now this changes things...a little. I lived with a BPD for about a year and a half around 10 years ago. And she drank. And when she drank? She yelled. And after a while I too started to cringe and kind of shrink back to avoid any type of confrontation. And this lasted for a year or two...

I guess my one and only question would be do you want to spend the rest of your life in total misery and look back when you are 75 years old and see what a total waste your life was, or do you want to break ties with this woman, start your life anew, start acting LIKE A MAN, and find someone...

I don't respond much anymore to posts like this, probably because I have seen them so many times over the years that I have just grown immune to them, but I felt your case was especially troubling, yet salvageable, so I wanted to chime in with some advice. First, you are being way way too...

Honestly if a girl whom I just met told me she would message me by a certain time to go out that night and then she never did message me? That is about as low interest as you can get and I would delete her contact info and forget about her. Not saying that is what she will end up doing...

Haha that is exactly who he is like. Great call.

Neil I don't begrudge you and the things you do. I actually think you give really good advice to the guys on here when you aren't talking about strippers. And I don't doubt that there is some semblance of truth to what you talk about when you discuss these strippers that you seem to date...

Guys Big neil and I used to have it out a couple years ago when he was claiming similar things with strippers. He has not changed I see haha. We actually get along now to a degree, but I think it goes without saying that either he is out and out lying, greatly embellishing, or living in a...

So what did she say that offended you? I missed that. Nevermind GFY is go fawk yourself. In what context and way did she say it?

While I loathe the attention ***** selfies more than anyone (I mean I HATE them), it really isn't for me to judge who wants a pic taken because they are with friends or family they haven't seen in a while or if they are doing it to post yet another pic on facebook or instagram. I just do it...

You guys are getting way to jaded here. It's a freaking picture guys. Takes 5 seconds. Who gives a fawk. I cannot even imagine thinking about this for more than half a second. It is so unimportant. Like off the radar, below sea level, less important than if I take 2 dumps today or 3...

You don't bring it up. You let her bring it up. You just keep acting the same way, showing her good sexing and fun when you together, and IF she is at all interested in taking this further, she will let you know. If you bring it up? Nothing good can come of it.

I think you are way over analyzing this. Don't think of every interaction you have with a woman or group of women as either you having an opp to get with them or them wanting to "use" you in some way. If anything I would take it as a compliment that they thought you looked good enough, and...

Yeah I have been over to Santa Barbara quite a few times to visit the beach and at night. Hotties everywhere. So if he wasn't getting any AND he was straight, I can see where he would be ready to explode. But I don't know. To me? He gay.

To me it is pretty obvious that deep down, he is either gay or bi. He looked to me like a girl in a mans body. He has probably been fighting that his entire life inside and led to all kinds of issues. Just listen to him speak though. And look at his face. He looked like a lesbian to me...

To me it is pretty obvious that deep down, he is either gay or bi. He has probably been fighting that his entire life inside and led to all kinds of issues. Just listen to him speak though. And look at his face. He looked like a lesbian to me. Lots of gay signs.

Everyone in this thread nailed it. Big neil, Danger, Kailex, Mauser, King, etc. Stop wasting precious time and energy on people who do not contribute in a positive way to your life and/or who don't respect you, and start spending precious time and energy on people who do. This girl broke up...

OP just relax and go with it. Let her make the moves as far as wanting to take it further. IF she does? See how you feel. IF she doesn't? That is ok you get some experience and bangs out of it. The point is not to pressure her, you, or the relationship. Don't come across as needy...

And yet you told her the exact opposite when you told her you don't want to see her as just a sex object. That to me means you see her as ltr material and want more from her. There has to be more to this story because what you just did makes no sense whatsoever. Were you afraid of sexing...

Girl asks you to sleep over and you tell her no that you think of her as more than a sex object??? I don't even. OP. That could work, some of the time, if you play it coy and say something like "I don't know, what have you done to deserve me staying over"? With a smile on your face....and...