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The original poster sounds exactly like myself... only older

Next time you catch yourself thinking like this, stop it. Thinking negatively will only bring you down more. I'm really bad at controlling my thoughts and/or stopping them. I tried meditation and it seems to help some in many parts of life. I guess I just need to work on it a little bit...

I could use some serious help... Been a while since I've been on this site and I'm currently having some major problems. I've been going through a quarter life crisis for some time now and to add to this issue I've never been laid... or at least not yet. I already feel like I missed out on so...

that Coraline movie looks pretty interesting.

The part of getting professional help on the other hand has been greatly considered but due to insurance issues it is not feasible at the moment.

I've been through enough rejection to not really care so much about it.

^^^^^^^^ I already know what I want/like but as I've mentioned before... as much as I may want something I never feel as if I'm deserving of anything. Could be conditioning from a miserable childhood and teen years which I hated even more. I have 0 control over my thoughts.

I believe that out of everyone I'm the total exception to the rule, in that I am deserving of nothing. I feel this way yet I continue to have wants and needs and this is very conflicting. I get times in which a woman would give me signals and I would take notice of it but would never take the...

Tell him you value your friendship a great deal and tell him exactly what he needs to hear.

Being Comfortable and Natural in Social Situations The key to being comfortable and natural in social situations is to expose yourself to social situations. Expose yourself, to as many situations and as varied of situation as possible. Force yourself to go out more, man. It will be very painful...

Yeah, tonight's a great night to go out but who wants to go out by themselves? Not all of us have friends who can/will go. Especially if you have very few friends and those few don't have the balls to speak to any women.

Hope you guys have a good one, hope you learned something this year and I hope 09 is great for you guys. See ya! Yeah hopefully. But thanks anyway.

I don't think you have to sink that low. Start with your own version of a 6. Someone that you can tell to get better make up and better clothes whom will blow up to a 7 or 8. You guys do know that make it is half of her beauty these days. That is why they spend so much money on it. Get...

Anybody can get laid. Everyone can't get paid. The point of it is....get out there and try. Experience life. I got shot down by an HB10 last night, she was bytchy as hell. But, she was with a cool guy and some more girls who was into the music we do. We hung out and after a while miss bytchy...

A lot of you guys are PUAs and not players. By that, you are logical, robotic, nerdy and stuck in your ways of A1, A2, A3. And how about the supposed countless number of women who spread their legs to PUA's? What does that make them?

I know how not too,but I have always come off as shy,even spaced out. But I need to know exactly how to not show any red flags as they say. Guess that makes two of us. I'm a weird person by nature so I guess me just being myself makes me a hopeless case. I don't bother talking to women I've...

It appears to me that you can't stop thinking of women because you know you're short-comings with them all too well, and that bothers you immensely. Yes? Perhaps deep down inside, you've come to the conclusion that marriage and children aren't for you, not because it's a true preference that...

I've noticed that on this forum there is this pervading idea that foreign women, particularly those of Brazil and Eastern Europe, are somehow more feminine and "know their place" more. Quite a silly idea, this. I mean, why would a foreign women acknowledge your presence any more than an American...

What all women seem to lack... and unfortunately most men as well.

especially about women. This has been happening for years and it's gotten to the point where I'm just really sick of it :mad:. In fact I feel kind of weird and ****ing stupid posting something of this matter, and to some it may seem like irrelevant nonsense but it is negatively affecting my...